Why people we love not remain with us?

@Informer (802)
India
January 31, 2009 2:33am CST
I talked with so many people and always got the same reply from all of them that people they love not remain with them always, whether It's friend, Lover, Mom, dad, bro-sis. Thats also I feel sometimes. I had a best friend with me in my chilhood days and loved him a lot but he had become a victime of an accident and now he is not with me. My one more frnd is also not there for me always. But I have a question Is that a real thing or we just don't care about those people whome we live with?
2 responses
• United States
6 Feb 09
The oly person I've ever prayed would be with me forever still is, so I guess I'm even luckier than I thought, and I already considered myself the most fortunate woman in the world. My husband will always be with me, I think, and we're both glad of that!
@Sevian (5)
• United States
31 Jan 09
I tend to think that it's partly an issue with how people show love. Some people demonstrate their love by being with others constantly, while others feel it doesn't require being around each other all the time. When life's circumstances bring people to separate, those that are less contact-dependent tend to drift away, but continue to think about their loved ones. They should probably make contact more often than they do, but for whatever reason, they don't feel the need. They see love more as a social contract than a demonstrable relationship.