smile can change your mood...

Philippines
January 31, 2009 6:33am CST
does any body know why people whose always making smile can change the atmosphere of a one place or topic? in office when i'm in a bad mood and when someone greet me with a smile suddenly i forgot my problem and all those bad feelings immediately disappear... sometimes i realize i want to be that person but how could i do that if i'm not born as a positive person?
6 responses
murthee
@murthee (84)
• India
14 Feb 09
TO make others happy,YOU must be happy first!!! have a smiling face.. control your anger... this is the first step to make others happy. do not take anything very seriously.try to speak with some humour.. you can see the difference
alabmemei
@alabmemei (44)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
though humor is an easy word i don't think it's easy to put in action hahaha... :-D
sakshar
@sakshar (7)
• India
12 Feb 09
yes i have small suggestion use youtube because of i daily use youtube and in it there is lots of comedy clip avilable just see it i hope it can change your mood also just try it ok..............
alabmemei
@alabmemei (44)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
it's hard for me to buff in you tube... is there another website?
daliaj
@daliaj (5674)
• India
17 Mar 09
Yes, I believe that smile can change the mood. If you are tensed or sad or worried, when you see a little baby smiling at you, you will forget all your problems and be happy and smile at the baby. Smile has a great power to change the mood of a person.
shiva529
@shiva529 (285)
• India
31 Jan 09
hi,i agree with your view smile can change our mood.to my belief smile is necessary to relieve from tensions...even we should try to make others laugh..so we can maintain freindly relation and they can help us if we are in problem...
alabmemei
@alabmemei (44)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
i want others to laugh and have fun but how could i do that if im not born w/ a positive aura?
njblair
@njblair (230)
• China
31 Jan 09
Hi alabmemei!I do agree with you.Hummm...I advise that he can watch some comedy or read some jokes.It can help him laugh more and more.In my opinion,it is a good way to keep happy.lol... Best wishes and have a nice day!:)
alabmemei
@alabmemei (44)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
do you think it will work?
jbosari
@jbosari (155)
• United States
6 Feb 09
I was born into a miserable existence and now am one of those happy people you are talking about. Happiness, believe it or not, is a science. There are very specific things you can do to be happier: 1) Smile - even when you are by yourself and don't feel like it. When you smile, it creates a chemical reaction in your brain that stimulates good-mood chemicals. Fake it till you make it! 2) Compliment other people - find something you like about whoever you are in the room with and let them know about it. they will smile, you will smile, everybody feels good and the relationship is strengthened. 3) Friends and Family - people with strong family and friend connections are just happier. Do what you can to get closer. I started a family dinner night at my house to get closer to my mother-in-law and it worked wonders. We had a distant relationship before and now love each other to pieces. She never used to smile and now she does all the time. I hope these tips help. There's a lot more you can do, but the kids are waking up and I have to get moving. Good Luck!
alabmemei
@alabmemei (44)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
thanks to your reply... it made me think deeper...