This guy is driving me crazy.
By ravend
@ravend (658)
Malta
January 31, 2009 7:58am CST
I had met a guy some months ago at university before exams. Around 2 months ago he asked me out, and we dated for a couple of weeks. I, am a person who likes travelling and from date one he knew that, since the previous Summer I had put off dating him just because I was going to spend the summer in Italy, and New Year's in Bulgaria. Anyway - On Christmas Eve I asked him what he would be doing, and he told me would be spending it with his girlfriend. The saturday before, since I preferred to stay with my friends and have a girls' night out (which I had have planned for much longer than I have been dating him), he met another girl and eventually started a relationship with her. That was ok, I told him: good for you, thanks for using me as a spare tyre. Meanwhile, I changed my travelling plans and decided to go back to Italy. A while before I was catching my flight, he messaged me asking me how I was, and I told him not to talk to me anymore, to which he responded:'Can you tell me what on earth I have done wrong to you?'.
Yet again, while I was in Italy he contacted me to show me photos of his new girlfriend, who by the way, is a 16 year old girl (him and me are both 23), after which I blocked him from my MSN messenger, because I do not want such people in my life.
Now this guy keeps spamming my facebook message boards with nonsence phrases.
Do you think he's just stupid, or is he being evil?
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2 responses
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Jan 09
Men can be very thick or dense or yes, stupid. You must explain to him very simply and clearly that you have changed your mind. You don't want his friendship, his messages or phone calls. Tell him directly what he seems to want to know...do not leave it for him to figure out himself because he can't conceive of the notion that he has done anything to offend you.
@ravend (658)
• Malta
3 Feb 09
Yes I very much understand. In his mind he thinks I will stay waiting for him and be all nice with him. I refused to tell him anything, or to tell him that what he did was wrong just because I know how the mind of people like him works. He's immature and if I tell him something he will attribute it to me being jealous or immature or silly... so basically he won't understand. It will be useless. :)
