Mixed religion relationships

I was in a similar situation, where I practice Hinduism (of sorts) and I was with a "born again" Christian person. I soon learned that the reason he suggested we have a "Hindu" room, and and "Christian" room, in the house, was because he was convinced that sooner or later, he'd get his way. Most Christians are convinced that non-Christians are doomed to burn in hell for eternity. It can be difficult, for me anyway, to really open up and share with them. I have a hard time having a normal conversation with them. If I'm having difficulty in anything, they have all the answers, they will inevitably tell me, that if I just become "saved," I'll be with Jesus in Heaven for eternity, and all will be well. I don't know how long you both can keep your beliefs to yourselves. When kids come, it's going to be a real challenge. I do believe that kids should grow up learning about all cultures and religions, aside from what their parents are into. They should learn to respect all religions, as well, and always be encouraged to be inquisitive and curious. From my own experience, Christians do not have much respect for any religion outside of their own. Maybe your girlfriend is different, maybe she's more open-minded and accepting of people's different views on spirituality, and on God. Oh..this born again Christian guy and me??? We weren't able to make it. But there was alot of other things going on, too. Good luck to the both of you.

My husband is a non-denominational Christian, while I am an atheist. For the most part we get along when it comes to religion, because he's very liberal in his beliefs. However, when it comes to some things, we'll just never agree. For example, the issue of children came up. I don't like the idea of circumcision, and don't see the point in the baby baptism. My husband wants both for our kids. I'm willing to let him go through with the baptism, because it's really no big deal. However, circumcision isn't necessary, and I have yet to give in. I can't remember all the other things we've disagreed about when talking about our kids, but those two stick out in my mind. For the most part I'm willing to be the one to give, because silly superstitions don't bother me. If my husband wants to sprinkle water on my kid's head, it's not going to hurt. The stuff that might hurt, though, I fiercely oppose.

Personally for me, I am glad that my husband became a Christian about 6 months before we got Married, as this is a situation myself I am not sure I would have wanted to handle. But as long as you and her can work it out, there is nothing wrong with this. You just need to remember to be able to respect her feelings and her yours, and let your children decide as well what is best for them as they get older as well. No, not everyone will always agree with you, and some might even mock you, but personally my thoughts as a Christian is the choice is yours, and until you choose to change it there is nothing no one can ever do as well.

It seems that you and your wife are handling the situation just fine. You are allowing your children to experience both belief systems and choose for themselves, you are communicating openly and honestly. Even if you were both Christian or Athiest, I guarantee that you would still have opposing beliefs in some aspects. Regardless of religious beliefs, treat others as you want to be treated and you will show your respect for one another and be able to love your way through any difficult time. Good luck

My mom and dad doesn't share the same religion. Despite their different beliefs, they seldom argue about it. My dad says as long as we are raised in good manner, it doesn't matter who we follow. We are 3 siblings and we followed our mom's religion. I am now happily married with a person whom I share my beliefs.