Favorite teachers
By dreamertink
@dfollin (25351)
United States
January 31, 2009 9:53pm CST
When I was in the third grade I had a teacher named Mrs Ruth Stanley and she was very different from the previous 3 teachers I had had.She was very kind and understood that kids may not always be in the mood to do certain subjects on certain days.So with all our in class subjects except for spelling they were in what she called centers and they were done when we felt like it but all subjects assignments were due at a certain time.She was great.I was not homeschooling my boys and many times when they were having problems in school I wished that I had her for them.
Do you have a favorite teacher?
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@nowment (1757)
• United States
1 Feb 09
She sounds like a remarkable lady and very insightful.
I went to catholic school and so Sister Gemma, was unusual nun for the time. She really did not live in judgement of others.
There was one teacher, who since he had my sister for math just assumed I was bad at math. In actuality my sister was not bad at math until she had one truly terrible teacher.
Anyway this other teacher assumed I would bad at math because my sister was.
He taught the more advanced for fifth grade and Sister Gemma taught those who were not as advanced and needed a little more help.
The problem was I was great at math.
So while she had her class divided into two groups, those who could do math but needed to work at it, and those who were really struggling to get a c.
I ended up in her class in a corner by myself, and tended to get about five or ten minutes a day with her for math one on one.
Example was one group might be on page 10 the second group was on page 17 and I was on page 30.
She realized with only a few explainations to my questions I could basically do most of the work in the book on my own.
For this reason she allowed me to jump ahead and work at a pace that was natural to me.
She was very good at adapting to the student rather than assuming that the students all fit the labels that many teachers might want to put on kids.
One of the guys in our class was a lefty, since he sat next to me, I heard some of hoe she helped him.
Rather than go with the idea that a left handed student should conform and either learn to use his right hand or that writing was the same with the left hand as it was with the right hand, Sister Gemma was ambidextrious she taught herself to use both hands and was able to then give tips to kids who wrote lefty rather than force them to use the other hand,
How many teachers learn to develop other skills so they can help their students?
She practiced what she preached, and despite being a catholic nun, she actually said the words "I don't care if you are a good catholic or not, I care if you are a good christian, do you follow the teachings and ideals of tolerance, compassion, caring, trying to help others, to not judge others, etc"
Then she gave us a lesson on the first day of class, when we came back with our information she then made a point of showing us that the lesson wasn't so much about the topic, as it was that we saw that different wasn't right or wrong but just different.
So that we could accept others for who they are even those of different religions.
Then she shared within her history lesson another important lesson, showed us how to look at things from different perspectives, try to take issue in our life and then balance it by arguing the point as if you were arguing for rather than against the issue, so you can see if from someone elses point of view.
So to some degree we were in the labels and pigeon holes that the system tried to use but she didn't stick with them when she thought her students needed more.
And by example we learned to walk your talk live by what you say, that your actions speak for you,
amazingly she remembered every one of her students, I had her when I was ten yrs old. I saw her again when I was a teen, and I was moving rather quickly to get where I was going yet just in passing she knew who I was.
Even if she wasn't a teacher she was an amazingly remarkable woman, an example to anyone on what it is to be a great human being.
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@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
1 Feb 09
That is great that you can remember so much about her and to remember her so fondly.. She sounds as if she were one of the better teachers and you were one of the better students.. Not all students want to learn and some want to learn all that they can, you sound like the latter..
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@dfollin (25351)
• United States
1 Feb 09
That nun sounds like a really great person,a great influence the way she thought.My boys went to public school and ended up with labels.I wish that they had had teachers that would work beyond the labels like she did.Lol,my uncle was born left handed and my grandmother believed that it was evil to be a lefty.So,she beat him till he could write right handed.But,what she didn't know was that behind her back he was still practicing with his left hand,so he is ambidextrious also! My youngest son was born a lefty as far as writing,but bats,bowls,uses tools with his right hand.So,I guess he in my grandmothers eyes he is half evil.
@nowment (1757)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Donna, thanks for the kind words, I think she was just special, so few people in this world practice what they preach or feel so strongly. I think she choose teaching beacause it was what was needed, but that convent was affiliated with a school and a hospital.
Since she felt she should always be giving and helping others she learned what she needed to be a nursing aid, for the summers when she wasn't teaching.
More people like her should be around children, I had gotten lucky twice I had good teachers who felt it mattered to not only teach the book things, but also share ideas of tolerance and compassion, and on top of that share that it is not important to learn the facts in the book.
It is also important to learn to look at things, learn how to think things through etc.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Feb 09
i had a couple of favorites in grade school. was real fond of my 4th & 5th grade teachers.after i got to hich school wasn' t too fond of any of them. typical teenager, i guess.
@dfollin (25351)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Yes,teenagers typically do not like their teachers.However I wanted to be a teacher and I guess I could see the good in most of them.I guess it depends on the subject too.I did not like science.So,I don't remember a lot about them.Accept one had an accent and I could barely understand her.I remember another was real nice,but I did not understand the class.In my county for some dumb reason math was easy in 9th grade,it was like 3rd grade work.I was getting A's for the first time in math!Then my counselor wanted me to take Algebra.I didn't get it.The teacher was a man that was real nice and he was good looking too.So,my teenage friends that were girls were jealous that he had kept me after for a week to try and help me understand algebra. I still didn't get it and he recommended that I go back to the math class I was making A's in.
But I really liked my social studies teacher,the other social studies teacher was a young man and he started dating and became engaged with a student and I would pass his class and she was sitting on his lap while he was teaching and I thought that was totally unetical.Maybe that is why I didn't even consider him a good teacher.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Feb 09
i hated algebra. i knew it was never going to be of any help to me in what i wanted to do & i felt like i was wasting my time & i didn't understand one thing about it & wasn't fond of either of the teachers besides.
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@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
2 Feb 09
I really enjoyed my early grade teachers. I loved my Kindergarten teacher. She was patient and very supportive with all of us. I think all of her students really adored her. She was fun to be with and she really had us engage in really enjoyable things. My first grade teacher was fun but I can't really remember too many things that she did that stick out in my mind. My second grade teacher was OK. She wasn't terrible either. We liked her but she sometimes did have moments where she was 'mean'. I liked my third grade teacher a lot too. We had really fun lessons. We were able to have a show and tell week where we could do fun things. We also collected stickers every month for certain things and then were allowed to choose one thing from a box of items that she kept in her closet.
As I got older, I started to care less and less for my teachers. They were harder to connect with and weren't as fun. School started becoming less fun the older I got.
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@dfollin (25351)
• United States
20 Feb 09
When I was in elementary school it was very important to me.I adored my kindergarten teacher,my first grade teacher was pretty good.My second grade teacher caused me problems and school was so important to me that I had a nervous breakdown.Then I was fortunate enough to get an excellent third grade teacher.My fourth grade teacher was not so great and we had many deaths in my family that year also and I had another nervous breakdown.My fifth and sixth grade teachers were not that good.But,I think I was getting used to it and it did not effect me very much.
@dfollin (25351)
• United States
1 Feb 09
My second favorite teacher was a man in 6th grade.He was not my grade teacher,but at the time we were having elective classes and changing for english.I guess so we would get used to getting ready for junior high school.I had him for english and photography.He was a great teacher too.
@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
1 Feb 09
It has been so long since I went to school, I am not sure if I had one or not.. I do remember a teacher in the third grade??, I think it was the third, she was trying to get us to learn to count to 5 in Spanish, we got ice cream if we did and if we counted to 10, we got strawberries on top of the ice cream.. Uno, Dos, Tres, Cuatro, Cinco, Seis, Siete, Ocho, Nueve, Diez, can you tell that I got my strawberries on my ice cream..
My son also had a few great teachers and I did love them dearly, he was home schooled for awhile because of having Tourettes Syndrome, but was in regular school most of the time and he had the most wonderful teachers in the world..
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@dfollin (25351)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Yah!I do believe you got your strawberries I don't speak spanish,so I will just take your word for it,that they are correct.
My boys went to public school and had learning disabilities and were labeled.I did not even hear of homeschool till about 1990.And the school board said that I could not homeschool my oldest son.At the time I did not know that they cannot tell me that I can't.I am now homeschooling my daughter.
@nowment (1757)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Unfortunately a lot of people didn't and still do not know what their legal rights are when it comes the education of their children.
Also when it comes to special needs children unless Bush did something to put a stop to that by federal law, the town you live in is responsible to providing a school or education that meets your requirements and if you don't agree with the assessment they make you can demand that they change things in what used to be called the IEP report, now it has a different label.
That as soon as you sign it, you are stuck going where they may want to plut your child.
With my niece we refused to sign off on it, and they had to change schools for her.
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@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
1 Feb 09
We did read up on the laws, rules and regulations and were the lucky ones as he attended a great school.. Josh graduated in 1999 along with the rest of his class.. His Tourettes was the motor tics only, (Thank God) but he had a lot of problems with those.. He was treated great at school by his teachers, counselors and everyone else that had to do with his special education.. His further education was paid for by the state and he went on to two years of college, so I am happy with the way things turned out but everyone is not so lucky to have people working to help them in these situations.. I hope others will learn the rules concerning Special Education and give their children the best possible opportunities to learn all that they possibly can.. As I said, we were lucky to have the help and understanding teachers that we had..
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@my1341 (456)
• China
20 Feb 09
My favourtite teacher is a middle-aged man who taught Chinese when I was in a normal school. He was very intelligent, versatile and had a wide range of knowledge. I really apprecite his wits and his lecturing was so lively, philosophical and got the most attraction from us.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
1 Feb 09
I had a favorite teacher too when I was in Grade 5. she was so understanding but she is firm with rules. That is what I like with teachers. The one who is kind but strict to the rules. Consistent and firm. I don't like teachers who will always give in to the wishes of the students. I don't learn from them. Kind and firm is what I like and I've seen that in my Grade 5 teacher.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Hello dfollin1 I have many favorite teachers. Well, I remember one teacher of mine in Elementary and she is Mrs. Anita Nieves. I love her because she is strict inside the classroom but when after the class, she treated us like her own children.