I wonder why?

i think people cheats because they are no longer satisfied or happy with the current relationship and couldnt say and cant say the break up words. or they love the person so much but there is something missing with the relation that they are still in a quest on looking for it. something like that. some people are not good on saying so they rather cheat and be caught than to break up.

I believe that a man or a woman cheats because of dissatisfaction in a relationship. I guess it's instinctive that if a need of a person is not met then he will look for a way to satisfy that need. That somehow, explains why there are people who are tempt to look for another one even if he has a wife/gf already. He will tend to look for that quality he is looking for with somebody else just to satisfy his need.

people cheat for all sort of reason they cheat because they are insecure,are they con,t feel love in the relationship.are they just want to try something new.most of the time the cheater put him are herself in difficult situation and it happens.so you see it depends on the situation why they cheat it,s a personal choice to cheat.

Hello! As for me, my number one reason is; DISSATISFACTION; this would be the bottom line, how would I cheat my partner if I am satisfied. I mean nobody is perfect but at least if I would put in balance all of her aspects and found out in general that my satisfaction would be heavier than dissatisfaction well satisfaction prevails. TRIAL and ERROR; In this way, I think it's obvious. Both parties tried or one of them didn't know one of them just try. Knowing each other attitudes and traits. If one of them found out a kind of bad and un-tolerable kind of character then "cheating" starts. PERFECTIONIST: If your partner would be perfectionist and fault-finder, I think trouble will always there. Not contented and tired of partner's attitude, cheating would be one of the solutions. NOBODY is perfect, that's why some of the partners attempt to cheat for some certain reasons of their own. If both parties would like to save the relation then why not give each other a chance and move. If things worsen then maybe that's the time to leave each other to avoid the case of CHEATING. Nice topic. I just hope my response would be understandable to all your readers. Cheers

I think people, regardless of the gender, lie from their partners because they're not yet ready to enter a serious long-term relationship. They're not ready for a commitment that's why they still look for somebody who's more attractive or has qualities that their partner doesn't have. One has to have the right level of maturity in order to stick to a single relationship.