You Accept Your Male Partner If He Shorter than You........???

No one is perfect and height is certainly not a measure of the quality of a person, If your relationship or lack of relationship is based on height then there is something wrong with one or both of the parties involved.

I am female and in my opinion I don't think that you should let height be an issue. Every woman has her own individual preference, and the fact that she is with you means that she doesn't see your height as an issue, so why should you? Honestly, an attractive man is one that is confident, smart and funny, not necessarily one that is tall (and boring for example!!)

Hello Tushavi! Judging a person and whether you should be with them by their height is shallow. If someone doesn't want to be with you because you're shorter than them, then they're not worth being with in the first place. My husband is shorter than I am and I could care less. He's a wonderful man that I love. His height doesn't change who he is. The fact that you're feeling this way shows me that you don't trust the person you're with. If you trusted her, you wouldn't be worried about this.

I'm taller than my partner, only by an inch, but still taller. I love him for who is inside as well outside... and clearly your partner loves you for who you are both inside and out. There's nothing wrong with being shorter than the average... and your partner is way taller then average! Some men find that off-putting, so good on you! Totally ignoring everything I just said about it not mattering; *is slightly jealous of your partner's height* I'm 5'8" *pouts*

I'm already short for a girl so any guy who was shorter than me would be...freakishly short. But if I were taller, I'd have no problem with it. It's the inside that counts. :)

hi there You know what they say "love conquers all" Height issues shouldn't be a concern if you truly love the person. ~proudnana~

i have always preferred tall men. besides if they had been shorter than me they would have beem a midget.lol

Well I dont think that I would ever have that problem. I am 5' even so it would be pretty hard for me to find a guy shorter than me. I am not sure how I would feel about it. Some girls only like guys that are taller but obviously your girlfriend cares for you and it doesnt bother her. So dont worry about your height and just enjoy your time together.

height doesnt really matter. my fiance is a little shorter than i am :)

Actually i am already short 5.4 and guy shorter than me is total no- no. But in your case i would suggest that you stick with her as your height is good enough and if she doesn't care than why you are feeling so bad.If you leave her for this reason then she will feel very bad about her height and it would certainly lower her confidence. My friend who is also 5.10 says she thinks no guy likes her and she thinks everybody think her as a giant. You have a great gal stick with her.

I think if you really love each other, height woiuld be an issue. Other people's comment doesn't bother you guys, it just depends how you think, if you think I love her, here you go, what else is more important? That's what I think.

Uhm...I think I would accept a guy even if he's shorter than me, what matters most is not the height, the foundation of the relationship, if the two of you are in love with each other, with a strong friendship and love at the same time, then go for it! Love knows no boundaries (^_^)

LOL. Like why on Earth would I base the love that I feel on height of the person?? I am a bit shorter than you though (5'4") but if there would be someone who would love me and I would love, its not reasonable to leave him just for being shorter than me. Anyway, it's not his fault having such short legs. LOL.

Personally I do not initially attracted by men that are shorter than me... but I cannot say I will not date a guy shorter than me, coz I do not judge a guy by his appearance... perhaps he will not be love at the first sight. But you shouldn't feel bad about it, Kate is taller than Tom Cruise... there is nothing wrong with going out with a girl taller than you... as long as you both love each other.

It does not bother me at all. there are far more things to worry about. If she loves you, it shouldn't matter. If it does bother you, maybe she doesn't. But it sounds like it is you. I am sure you have so much more to offer. You shouldn't worry about it.

Hi, For me, hieght is not the basis of your relationship. As long as you love each other what matter if she is taller than you.

of course, you fallen for them because of how they love you and love them back. my wife is slight taller then me by a few inches.

honestly, it really shouldn't matter what height or age you are. Look at Tom Cruise and anyone he's ever dated, they were mostly taller than him. Mind you, his ex's didn't leave him for his height.

Sorry! but that doesn't matter in love or in love acts! Does she loves you! That's great and enough!

well technically, what counts is the behaviour of the person... so i have already fallen for a guy, then i would love him irrespective of his physical attributes... but if there is a possibility of having a relationship with a guy whom i dont know a thing about, then i would always judge on the looks first and then get to know the person