what things in life had made you stronger?

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They say that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I do not believe that we are born with strength of character but I do believe we build resilience as we get older if the conditions are right. I think that some people go through life having everything done for them and as a result they never need to build up real mental strength to deal with lifes adversities. Only when your support network is gone or you lose someone close to you that you have relied upon for help, guidance and support do you relaise that you are on your own and have to step up to the plate. I had to leave a marriage with an alcoholic husband and it was so hard to do because I loved him and knew he would not get better if I stayed with him. I had some bleak times after that as I was really low and vulnerable but I have built myself up and a new life now and I am stronger as a result. My ex is also doing well as he finally sought recovery years later. What is it that has made you strong and do you feel more able to cope with the future as a result?