Can you describe the biggest fight you had with your bf/gf?
By jokkarosel
@jokkarosel (74)
Philippines
February 1, 2009 8:16pm CST
I am posting this question for everyone to asnwer 'coz well, last Friday, I just had the bigggest fight with my boyfriend and it was really really bad. We were in the mall and we started fighting about a little thing which grew big because that's always the case with us. Then before I knew it, things got out of hand and I was shouting and walked really fast so that my boyfriend couldn't keep up with me. It even reached a point where I ran already so that he can't keep up bu the ran also and grabbed me by the hand. It was really scandalous considering we were at the mall but yeah, that wasn't the first time that kind of fight happened. I guess that was the second time and I promise I wouldn't let that happen again because it is just so painful. In the end we both cried and said our sorry's and we kissed and made up.
How about you guys? What was your biggest fight about and how did it went?
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12 responses
@rsk721 (41)
• United States
2 Feb 09
The worst fight I ever had with my husband was when we were first married, I was pregnant, we were building a house, and we were living with my parents while it was finished. It actually got to the point that I kicked him out! I locked the door and told everyone not to open it. Little did I know that my mother had actually set my husband up and started the whole thing. She let him back in, confessed her part and my husband and I agreed that he would not take advice from her again. We haven't had a fight that bad since that one night 11 years ago!
@ashokdhamala (23)
• Nepal
2 Feb 09
i think fight is also a part of love. my girl friend always become angry with me. we are n same college. we always fight in every two days. last fight became because of some misunderstandng. but one thing is i cannot understand girls.
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@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Well, I must admit we are kinda difficult to understand sometimes. But admit it too, you guys cannot live without us girls! :)
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
It was year 2007 when we had a big fight. It was about a big big misunderstanding that started with his cousins. I don't quite remember the details since it was like two years ago and I buried that big fight.
Anyways, he went in the province and stayed there for like 2 days. He promised to call and text me which he did when he reach there. However, he stopped texting me and whenever I call him, it was off. I was so angry because I need to tell hiim somthing important that day (though I can't recall anymore) then someone just sent me a message that I shouldnot bother him since he was just in province.
I was so pissed off but I can't tell the truth to him because I don't know who that is and I deleted the message plus I didn't record the number since I don't have plans in making that a big scene. But true enough, I got so paranoid and scared.. then we fought because i wasn't able to control myself... so we did break up.. that day
I thought that was the end of it but later I realize that it shouldn't be like that so i call him and we talked. I was the one who lowered my pride because I know that he doesn't know the real reason why I got so paranoid and all that stuff... so I reconciiled with him. When I heard him cry a little bit..my heart melted...
I love him so much. I am really glad that that didn't happen again!!! Happy Mylotting and thanks for the discussion! Have a great day! cheers!
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@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
My heart melts too whenever I see/hear my guy cry. Aww. Cheers!
@mssaranya (193)
• India
2 Feb 09
I can never forget that day when I fought with him on aug 2008.Everyone will be possessive with their friends.I aske him whether tou are avoiding me .He got angry and we both started arguing and finally our friendship has ended now.After few dayz I came to know he was not worth being party of my life by seeing few of his activities.
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@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Oh my, that was a sad thing to have happened to you -- to lose a friend. I wish you guys all the best though!
@figment_28 (49)
• United States
2 Feb 09
The Biggest fight that My husband and I have ever gotten into was when we were dating...It was over a puppy!!! LOL!! Looking back it is really funny, but then it was not. My friend and I had just moved in with him (it was a roommate thing to begin with because we had just gotten jobs in Chattanooga and he lived closer than we did) Anyway! M and I had resuced two puppies about a week after we moved in. She was going to keep one and I was going to keep the other. When she changed her mind, I asked Richie if I could keep the other one (I am such a softie for furry creatures) but he said No. I threw a huge temper tantrum, one that would put even the best to shame. Richie, being very "hippy-ish" is normally laid back and calm, but I even had hime rilled up and yelling within just a few minuets....I was done with him because he was being so mean, I was packing my things and getting out of there..ect, ect. We argued for well over 4 hours, but in the end we kissed and made up and promised to try to talk instead of argue...and to this day we always talk before we get angry and always rationalize before we make decision.
P.S. I got to keep both the Puppies!
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@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Haha! LOL on the puppy part.
Well, I picked up a thing or two from your response. Thank you so much! My boyfriend and I will try to do that too. Talk first before we get angry. Cheers!
@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
2 Feb 09
That must of been kind of embarrassing, but I guess not that much because you get in the heat of the moment. Now believe it or not, my boyfriend of two years and I have never fought, I almost cannot believe it myself, but my boyfriend is just really calm and controlled, he has never initiated any hostility, and by him being like that I am also the same way, we talk about how we feel and it does not go further than that, no yelling, just understanding between the both of us. Now in past relationships they were rocky, but good thing I can't really remember the stupid fights that were had. I will just focus on now with the man of my dreams!
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@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
You must be very lucky! But yeah, my boyfriend and I try our best not to fight anymore. Cheers!
@newuser_99 (377)
• Nepal
3 Feb 09
hi jokkarosel, nice love-fight ,ended in cry and kissing,geat
have a great love
@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
Yes yes, it always happen to us. We always fight and fight and fight but in the end we can't stand being angry with each other. We always kiss and make up in the end. I guess it's just the way love goes. The more you hate the more you love as they say.
@Pleiades (846)
• United States
2 Feb 09
Jok, these things happen for a reason. I figured if you had a relationship where everything was rosy then how would you know how to handle things if they got bad?
Anywho...my boyfriend's greatest fight? Well, we haven't had a fight, persay, but there have been several times where his male egoness got in the way and his imagination ran wild. He asked me about the men from my past and I answered. What happened after that was kinda stupid because he got mad. Again, it was a male ego thing. He even thought we were breaking up. The reason I find it silly because it's just something so small, we have yet to experience something really huge in that instance. When it happenes, I hope we can work through it.
*Pleiades
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@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
I agree with what you said on your second sentence. I wish you goodluck and happiness in your relationship! :)
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
2 Feb 09
hi,
"Fight was only onesided".all the utensils were broken.All the mirrors were in pieces.all clocks stopped.My refrigerator refused to work.Bulbs fused.pets left the house forever.She became violent...till the Dr came(i could only phone ,with lots of difficulty) and put her on sedative inj to sleep....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.....
=Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@jokkarosel (74)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
That was kind of violent huh. Does she like have an attitude problem or a disorder perhaps? She might need help from doctors. It might be a good idea for you to bring her to one. Anyway, I wish you guys won't fight anymore. Take care!
@purnima175 (435)
• India
10 Oct 09
I can never forget that day when I fought with him .Everyone will be possessive with their friends.I aske him whether tou are avoiding me .He got angry and we both started arguing and finally our friendship has ended now.After few dayz I came to know he was not worth being party of my life by seeing few of his activities.