my bestfriend steal my boyfriend/husband

@AXLAERO (426)
Philippines
February 1, 2009 8:20pm CST
Oh no it's not me that im talking about in this topic..Im just thingking,what if my bestfriend steal my boyfriend to me?What if my boyfriend is having an affair with my bestfriend.This kind of situation can happen in real life.Actually,one of my cousin experienced this.She had a bestfriend that she treat like a sister.Then one day,my cousin's husband want to separate with my cousin.And she' so confuse why.Then she found out that her husband is having an affair with her bestfriend.Ouch,it really really hurts.She tried to win back his husband for the sake of their kids.But her husband choose his bestfriend in front the parents of her bestfriend,And my cousins parents.My cousin's huband is really f**k.When my cousin told me about that,i really feel angry.I feel sad about her.
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11 responses
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
2 Feb 09
so many happened this case.i have friend supposed to marry last december.the guy was from London and my friend pinay.but they canceled the wedding date because my friends best friend pregnant from her fiancee.crazy but its true.maybe thats what we call "no luck"
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
3 Feb 09
no more wedding because the wind has change to the pregnant
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
oh my gosh...!her bestfriend is a traitor.how can she do that to her own bestfriend?but its good that your friend already knew it early.so what will hapen now to the wedding?
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
If my bestfriend did that to me then there is nothing to talk about. I mean, there are other guys in the planet, why my husband or boyfriend? If she treats me like a family and her sister then she will never hurt me by stealing the person that is rightfully mine. It would be better if the boyfriend/husband would cheat me for someone else, because it would be double pain if both the persons that i trusts betrayed me and no, I can't bring the friendship back again. if that happens to me, if that is my boyfriend, i will leave him with my ex-bestfriend. If that is my husband, that is a different story, I wiill file a divorce if this can't be resolved or if he really wanted to be with other girl. I will not force myself into them. Nice discussion. Happy Earning! Thanks for the discussion! Happy Mylotting and Have a great day! Cheers!
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
that's also my point.there's someone else out there.your bestfriend can have a relationship with other guy but not your husband.and your husband can also have a relationship with other girl but not your bestfriend.the pain is double.thank's for the response...
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 09
Hi there, Yeah such thing happened in my family My uncle had an affair with my aunt's best friend Let's call her Mrs.X Mrs.X is my aunt's best friend, They always spend times together, they go to the market together, they also go to the salon together, And Mrs.X is the only person who accompanied my aunt delivering her first son Quite ironic I think .. My aunt always cried everytime she remember it My uncle and aunt still live together, but they both act like strangers My aunt always avoid her in public place, she said she never want to see Mrs.X face again If it were me, I would surely gone mad I might hire someone to shoot them Hahaa, no I'm just joking Thanks .. :D
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yah,even they still live together,thinge are not like before.They will always quarrel.There's no more trust and respect.I understand your aunt why she become like that to your uncle.How can Mrs.X do that?She's so bad to do that to her best friend.She's worst than a wh**e.Thanks's sharing me this story of your aunt.
@mjanne (251)
• China
2 Feb 09
I feel sad for your cousin too. And take care of children by herself is really a hard thing. Her husband is a irresponsible man and doesn't worth her love. Her bestfriend is also doesn't worth her trust. I hope she will go over it as soon as possible.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
hher husband is not worth.he's not a good father and a good husband because he have a thick face to do that.i really feel sad for my cousin because she really love her husband.but she have no other choice but to accept it and move on with her life.she still have her kids and that's the most important thing...
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
2 Feb 09
Hi, First,I feel sorry for You. But ultimately 'U R LUCKY'.Ur Bf is in Flirting mode....Ur Bestfriend will be ditched soon."this is my prediction". U r saved, dear! From a disaster in Life.Ur bf is not a person,who is to be trusted.By accident,U learnt it.Donot be jealous on Ur Bestfriend's luck.Start piting Her. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
thanks for the response.but it's not me who have ahusband was cheated by bestfriend and husband.im talking about my cousin.but anyway,your right that my cousin is luckt because she already knew it early.atleast she's still have her kids.have a nice day to you...
@samma00 (342)
• Canada
2 Feb 09
I would be so angry with my boyfriend. Moreso my best friend. Because she would've known how much I love him. So would've been the one I always confided in, and doing something like that, is just betraying your best friend in the worst way. I would probably never talk to my boyfriend/husband again. If we had kids together, I'd tell him that when he comes to pick them up never to speak to me. It would just be so hurtful to even think about that.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
for me,maybe i will let them feel what i felt when they betrayed me.i really cant take that kind of situation.i will make their lives miserable.i will not stop until they will feel the pain that they have done to me.thanks for the responce.have a nice day...
@subha12 (18441)
• India
2 Feb 09
it will be very bad situation. hurting too. there can't be worse than that. it will be cheating from your Bf plus best friend.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yah it's more painful because two important persons in your life do that to you.The pain is not so strong if ever the mistress of my husband is not my bestfiend.But since both of them is important to you,then its really painful.You trust both of them but they do it to you.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
that would be a total disaster, and it would be painful of course at the same time. but i will look at it at the bright side that i am surrounded by snakes and now i am free from them. i will surely be realizing that thwy are both snakes and no body in a right mind would do that. it should be a crime stealing things are crime then stealing people that you love should be a crime as well. lol. well it is not easy to move on for two people who are important in your life had cost pain in your heart but once again the realizing stage is what is in my mind.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Feb 09
This is terrible bad. A good friend should never steal good friend's boyfriend and husband. It's so wrong. It spoils everything. The friendship no longer exists. Besides, if this man will betray his girlfriend/wife, then don't expect he can be faithful for you forever. I love China
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
good day to you my friend.yes it's true that don't expect your wife to be faithful to you.this kind of thing is unforgiven.if i was the one who was betrayed by my husband and bestfriend,i will make them suffer.they will regret everything.why they have to do that?my boyfriend/bestfriend can pick someone else but not my bestfriend and boyfriend.well,lucky that its not me in this situation.thank's for the response...
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
That hurts really because both people can be close to me. That's really sad on what happened to your cousin. I guess she just needs to be strong for the sake of her kids because they are the most important persons in her life now. I guess her husband doesn't deserve the love of your cousin so she might as well give it to her kids or to someone else who's more deserving.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
I also tell her to be strong.But i dont know if i can be strong if i was on her situation.Its good that she have kids .Atleast,she have the strenght to go on with her life.I hope that someday,my cousins husband will also leave the bestfriend so that my cousin's bestfriend will feel how it hurts.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
2 Feb 09
Hi,I have heard of women doing thst sort of thing to other women that is supposed to be their friend.l As a matter of fact I have one friend who's husband did the same thing to her...left my friend for one of her other friends. My frriends ex-husband did not live happily ever after cause his new wife left him for another man. I take it he did not believe she would not cheat on him.They both got what they deserved.Hope your cousin is ok,what goes around comes around...eventually.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes i agree you.They are not worth to be love.Thank god my cousin is still fine depite all what happened.I want to help her but i dont know how.I really feel bad for her.I hope this thing will not happen to me.Im quite weak when it comes to love.