being a dreamer...

escaping reality? is it kind of day dreaming?anyway, do you think a shift of dream would resolve this? like a paradigm shift? if you cant achieve it, then let go, go find another one, just keep on dreamin...

Kind of...daydreaming to be somewhere else. Maybe it's possible to achieve, maybe it isn't. We all need something to aspire to, so if you've been dreaming of something, haven't reached it, and it makes you sad...let go, but keep on dreaming. Or try and not dream of something so specific. That way, you can't really be let down if it doesn't happen. Hope for something more broad...for example: dreaming of making a difference in the world, as opposed to being the president. The first one is more achievable than the latter, and it's something you can fulfill every day. Another example: if you dream of publishing a novel, be happy if you just write something or even if you're published in a web article. It's not the same, but at least it's related to your dream. You can keep hoping to publish that novel one day, but in the meantime, do things related to that dream. Sorry if this doesn't really make sense, or sounds cheesy. I'm a bit tired right now :p

no its not. your ideas are good! well, for me ive learned that when you want it, you're really going to get it. say if you want something, you're going to do everything to achieve it...cheers!

really? even if you feel or even think or believe that there is no end and no light at the end of the tunnel? arent you going back to square one and assess yourself? i wonder.say youre at 28 and still you remain stagnant, dreaming is still being pursued but you feel like by 29, you're still chasing for it? time to change?

what if the dream youre chasin happened to be not the dream you really wanted?it happens right? such a wrong move leads you to complication. you realize that you wasted a lot already. why dreams are really elusive?