would you go for non commitment relationship before asking for a commitment?
@lolipopicecream (170)
Philippines
February 1, 2009 11:54pm CST
I know alot of people this days being a girl i know i deserved to be woed and courted
i believe in courtship cause i don't wanna be the easy chick, i believe in exclusive dating but being on the dating scenarios this days most people that i know of go for no commitment relationship first like your together but not exclusive like you have the freedom to do what you want and all that and think it over bigtime if this is it?
a guy who likes me much told me lets start dating but he wants freedom, he wants us to be good friends, buddies and then there you go head to the relationship think about this what does this response mean to you? and do you go for no commitment relationship?
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@Esbatty (58)
• United States
2 Feb 09
Good old fashioned courtship is really missing in this day and age. I'm a big believer in it myself, but from what I gather from your statement the guy who's interested in you is being honest and upfront with you about what he's expecting:
His first step with you is going on dates, but he wants to be able to date other women and if things work out with you over time then he'd like to see you exclusively.
It doesn't sound too unreasonable, again he's being open and honest with you, instead of just dating you and then seeing other girls behind your back. That seems to be a somewhat rare quality nowadays.
Its really up to you. If you're uncomfortable with him seeing other women in addition to you, then be honest and upfront with him and tell him you're not okay with that arrangement. Its not an unreasonable request to put upon him.
