is it ok to be enlove with someone who don,t love you back?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
February 2, 2009 1:50pm CST
he tells you he loves you but he,s not enlove with you.my friend husband tells his wife he loves her but he is not enlove with her he is enlove with another who is pregant with his baby.poor thing she is so upset and asked me what she think she should do my lotter friends do you have any advice for her.she feels so alone now.
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@roselynm1023 (950)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
this is ridiculous. i hate men who are like this they are the typical kiss and tell. i guess your friend should ask the husband whom he loves most. he cannot serve two masters at the same time. i believe in monotony when were talking about love. aside to the fact that his action is a manifestation of infidelity. tell her to cheer up. its not the end of the world. allow herself to feel the pain and grieve then afterwards bring back her composure. fix herself get out and have a life. she does not deserve such a crap.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
3 Feb 09
she did ask him he told her i love you but iam enlove with the woman who is pregant with his child.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
3 Feb 09
here is the thing him and her was trying to get pregant and it just wasn,t happening fast enough so he has someone else pregant and he wants a child so badly he want to be with the woman who is carrying his child he says this is his flesh and blood.
@roselynm1023 (950)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
oh my God! but he is married with her right? so what will happen to the marriage. this man is insane. if he wanted to have a child he should talk to the wife. they should do something like consulting a doctor in order to make necessary fertility evaluation for them to have a child. inability to bear a child is not a valid reason for a man to look for another woman who can give him a child especially if they are married. tell your friend to sue him of adultery. i really hate such kind of men.
@Nataliep88 (3)
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2 Feb 09
I feel bad for your friend, and it sounds like her husband's a pig. He may love her in a sense, but if he has gotten another woman pregnant then he's really not inlove with her and it's time for her to move on.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
2 Feb 09
te only thing i don,t want to be the one to tell her that iam hoping she see that on her on because it is her life and whatebver deicion she makes she has to live with it.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
3 Feb 09
that right i will be there for her if she needs me.i loved both of them i don,t want to be in the middle of their business.
@Nataliep88 (3)
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2 Feb 09
I totally understand where your coming from. Sometimes we have to learn the hard way. All you can really do is be there for her and when she falls be there to help her back up.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
2 Feb 09
this is her life, she must do what she feels in her heart to do
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
2 Feb 09
this is the way i feel too that why i thought i would ask someone else i don,t want to be the one to tell her the wrong thing because it is her husband,
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
I guess if the husband is not living with her I guess it's time to settle things for separation. I really do not think that the man is really excited about him having a baby on the other side of the fence so better yet leave him. As for your friend maybe time to have reality check why is she still there is she is unhappy anymore with the relationship. Don't she think she is being unfair to herself because of her staying in that relationship. All of these are but options for her to choose upon.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
I can understand the feeling of the father to be in his situation of course it is really an exciting event in his life. I think he is really not serious about his current relationship since he filed to bore a child with her. As for the wife I really think there is not point fighting for it since he can really see that the man is happy with the other woman.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
3 Feb 09
here is the thing him and her was trying to get pregant and it just wasn,t happening fast enough so he has someone else pregant and he wants a child so badly he want to be with the woman who is carrying his child he says this is his flesh and blood.
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