Have you ever cheated?

United States
February 3, 2009 5:40pm CST
Well have you? If so what made you do it? did you enjoy it? Did you get caught and do you still love your wife/husband or boyfriend girlfriend and are you still together?
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@Firefly99 (251)
• United States
4 Feb 09
I have NEVER cheated on anyone! Since I have been married I have had several chances but just could not do it EVEN tho I knew my husband was cheating on me! I know how bad it hurts and I would never want to inflict that kind of pain on someone else. I am also a firm believer in "what comes around goes around" So I would be afraid that it would come back on me two times worse!!!
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• United States
14 Feb 09
Good girl!
• United States
4 Feb 09
No, I have never cheated. I have been the wife. I know how it feels to be cheated on. Because of that, I will NEVER be the cheater, or the other woman. I couldn't bear to put someone through that. Oh yeah, I will never be the wife again either. I tried to forgive my ex-husband the first time. Then, I found out that he had a different flavor every week. That didn't work for me. I know that I couldn't forgive another person again. Well, maybe I could forgive them, but I would end the relationship, because the hurt would be too bad, and I would never trust him again.
• United States
4 Feb 09
I know how you feel! Been there myself! Its no fun! :(
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@samma00 (342)
• Canada
3 Feb 09
I cheated on my last boyfriend of 2.5 years. (I'm with someone new now) He use to hit me a lot, for about a year and a half. I didn't know how to leave him because he brought my self esteem down so much. Eventually I cheated on him, twice. I kissed 2 guys. We're not together anymore. We broke up after the second time I cheated.
@khasime (15)
• Philippines
2 May 09
When you are young, this intrigues you... You get to enjoy with this thrilling situation. I did when I was in my younger, high school years. You think it is really exciting and you would want to know if you could make your partner jealous and how he or she would react on this things.. But when you are already matured, planning to meet the person that you want to spend the rest of your lives, cheating is merely the most bad thing to do when you are in a serious relationship. Being unfaithful can lose a lot of things. Actually, you can possibly lose them both.