How do you deal with your partner if he/she get's pissed off easily?

Well, I guess, theoretically we need to compromise. Talk of things that would piss us easily and set some rules. Small things sometimes become complicated and blow out quite big. I try not to join him with the outburst, when he is done, then I would do my share.

oh me and my husband find over the most mundane things. but we are happy because we always make up before the night is over. we have made a rule not to sleep without making up! one time got so bad and i actually asked him what's wrong (in a gentle manner). he angrily says "oh, something about the house, or cleanliness or the dogs". i told him, what's really bothering you? because these things are not something you get angry about. and then we end up talking that something upset him at work, or his family or something. then i told him that if he feels he's getting upset, that i am here to talk to him about it. that he should let it out, else, he'll just burst and the person he sees, he'll let it out on them (which most of the time is me!). he said sorry and he'll try to stop himself in the future. this was 3 weeks ago. last night he did it again. he was washing the dishes and kept banging the dishes just because he said i wasn't listening to him that the meat did not need defrosting on the microwave (hahaha so funny right!). i figured it was pointless to lash out and be upset on something childish like that. so i just left him in the kitchen (at this point i was cooking and i need to leave it to cook anyway). i went to our bedroom and watched tv. he was in the living room. when i came back in the kitchen to look at the food, he hugged me from behind and said sorry.so i guess it's ok and he caught himself acting like that. i even thought to myself, all the more a fight will ensue if i retort back in the middle of his anger. so i just let him cool down. lol!

Hello magojordan! Honestly, my partner doesn't easily got pissed off. He is the most patient man I have ever known. I guess he got pissed off one time when I told him to postpone the date of our wedding. But honestly, I just want to know what would be his reaction about it. I am glad that the things that would made him mad is when I will try to leave him or something. That only proves that he really loves me.