unwanted pregnancy!

I experienced that situation twice in my life. One month after our marriage I got pregnant. Prior to our marriage we discussed everything with my husband all our plans if when to have a baby and how many we want in the future. I always have my period very month and at that time I was wondering why not yet have it. I was very suspicious that I am pregnant. What I did I purchased a pregnancy test to make sure, so after the test I knew that I am pregnant but still not satisfied I purchased again another preg. test and performed again. The result is positive but to make sure I went to an OB-GYNE to make sure. And that's it I am pregnant. I am not ready yet but I have no choice so I gave birth on August 2007 with a cesarean section. After I gave birth we discussed again with my husband our plan if when to have another baby. We planned after 2-3 years but 4 months after i got pregnant again. I cried because of that. But again I have no choice except to raise my baby. For all those things happened to me I am still very very happy because we are blessed with 2 beautiful and healthy babies, a boy and a girl. I love my children so much. So for those who have unwanted pregnancy don't ever hesitate to raise the baby.

With our last baby, I was faced with this. We'd just talked a few months before we found out I was pregnant that we needed to go on and set up to have a tubal consultation... needless to say that consultation turned in to a ob visit... It took me a long time to even feel happy about the pregnancy. I hated it. My husband was pretty ticked that it happened, but what else could we do... we aren't for anything else. So now we have a very devious daughter who's got her daddy wrapped around her pinky, and her momma spoils her day in and day out... Needless to say, she is our last. We finally got our planned tubal only a year later lol...

No pregnancy would be unwanted. A surprise yes, but not unwanted, ofcourse I am talking in what I believe. I would talk with my fiance and we would come up with a financial plan, we'd talk to both his parents, and my mom.

I suggest that you consult an obstetrician to confirm the pregnancy.I think, there is not much problem if you are married. But if you are not married, you should discuss it the father of the baby about his plans. Your parents must be informed, they have the right to know. Whatever happens, never resort to abortion. A baby is a gift from God. Not all women can have a child.

I can't give any advice because I would keep the baby. I am pregnant right now and are very happy to have my little peanut. I hope you change your mind.

Around september of last year i found out i was pregnant. And i didn't want to be pregnant and so i checked out getting an abortion, i told the father of my plans and i wanted to know what he thought and just like all guys his response was its your body. we talked about it further and i came to find that he wasn't ready for a kid becasuse he felt that it would change him and he didn't want to be changed. so i went and got checked out for getting an abortion, but i never went back because i was scared. I ended up not telling my parents till i was like 5-6 months along and well that didn't go over well. and well during the whole thing i was dating a guy who is now my boyfriend and he didn't find out til i was like 4 months along. the cool thing was he stayed with me even though i was having someone elses child. SO in the end i had my daughter who is now 8 months old and i am expecting one on the way. I think that having an abortion is a hard thing to do especially when you actually think about what it is that they actaually are going to do. I tried hard not think about being pregnant but in the end you are and there is another life inside of you. the best part of it all is actually seeing what is inside come out into the world. Its really not that bad and those who can't accept the situation will before its all over.

First things first, you need to go see an OB-GYN so that you can be sure if you are really pregnant. In my case, when I had an unplanned pregnancy, I talked about it with my boyfriend and we decided to get married. Thank God, that everything went smoothly from there. You need to set your priorities straight, and you have to let your parents know about your situation. telling them would definitely set you at ease, and therefore you can plan ahead. But please, don't think for one second about abortion. Don't make another mistake from a mistake. Also, talk with the father of your baby about your future plans, from there you can move forward. Good Luck!