Would you sit in a garden all alone...........

In brief, you have the patience and will to sit all alone and it is really great on your part that you can connect with nature. You appear a very level headed person. Yes, if you have your camera with you, then you can pass your time easily...........!!!Many thanks for dropping in showing the courage to sit all alone.........

In brief, you have the patience and will to sit all alone and it is really great on your part that you can connect with nature. You appear a very level headed person. Many thanks for dropping in showing the courage to sit all alone.........

Stealwater, I will give it a try some day. Thanks for the inputs.

i think you will not really feel alone when you have nature all around you, the river, the grass, the insects, the clouds when you look up, the birds, and it is really wonderful when you are into this kind of thing, i have done it lots of times, but sometimes when i am by myself i bring a sketchbook or a guitar :)

Mayka! I understand that you have the patience and will to sit all alone and it is really great on your part that you can connect with nature and can spend your time pondering over new ideas for discussions and thinking about some good new poems. Just give it a try some day and tell me that how long could you site all alone in a park..........LOL! You are a creative person, I know and you can utilise your time well sitting in the park. Many thanks for dropping in and showing the courage to sit all alone in a garden.

I have often spent a couple of hours on the beach justing watching the sunset and the people around. This is the picture of the beach that I very often go to. I dont think it will be difficult for me to spend an hour in the garden. Only problem is I will have to search for a quiet garden here!!!

Please read as...this one hour of peace and quiet......

No, your boy friend is not there to give you company, in this siutuation. In brief, you have the patience and will to sit in a park for one long hour. Hats off to you. You appear a very level headed person. Many thanks for dropping in showing the courage to sit all alone.........

HI! Opal! In brief, I understand that you have lot of patience and will sit all alone and it is really great on your part that you can connect with nature. You appear a very level headed person. Many thanks for dropping in showing the courage to sit all alone.........

pl. read 'spend', instead of stand.

Darkwing! It is nice to know that you have plenty of patience and you sit all alone and it is really great on your part that you can connect with nature. You appear a very level headed person. If you feel that it is not waste of time, on the other hand, time to introspect, it is fine. You see perceptions, will differ in this case and I started this post to know various perceptions of dear members. Many thanks for dropping in showing the courage to sit all alone......... Deepak

You're welcome my friend. Yes, I understand that you will get various perspectives on this, but I was just airing mine. What's enjoyable for one person, isn't for another, and I think different ages make for different areas of enjoyment. Some people just love company and to buzz around doing all manner of things. I do that often, but there are the odd times when I just like to sit and recollect. :)

I agree with your views and appreciate the same. I have got different perspective to my posts and responses are still pouring in, when I write this and I've already received more than 100 responses..........LOL?

Thank you so much.........you are the best.

Indeed, sitting in a garden will depend how much pressure of our work, we have in our hands. We are always so engrossed in our day to day lives that we keep 'thinking' and if we some day we sit idle (either in a park or somewhere else), many 'thoughts' or say 'pending work' keep haunting us ceaselessly. I can understand that it would be a great experience to connect with a nature, provided we get such an opportunity. Bad sadly it does not take shape in reality. However, after going through so many response, I feel that I should give it a serious try one fine day. Many thanks for enriching the post with your wonderful and suplerlative thoughts.

You are right, we always remain busy and it is difficult to spare time to sit idle for one hour in a garden. I understand that you have strong will power and determination to sit in a garden and you can spend your time, observing others. Many thanks for enriching the post.

It is my pleasure!

you are most welcomed my friend. I was just sharing my thoughts on the discussion you started.

I understand that you are a very practical and honest person and you can sit in park to introspect yourself. I agree with you that sometimes we need to 'stop' and look back and enjoy all alone 'ourselves'. You appear a to me a down to earth and practical person. Many thanks for dropping in and sharing.

Yes, I agree to this. When I sit idle for sometime, I just have a look at my past my life. Good and bad moments that I have experienced. Some moments of love that I have spent. And think about the future.......................

Sarita, you're a practical person too. Sitting quietly gives one a chance to concentrate. The time spent may end up to be more productive when ideas and solutions come to our head. Time for good reflection without disturbances is what is needed sometimes. Also I forgot to add that sitting quietly in a park noticing the trees and plants, the birds chirping, the cool breeze, the insects, etc. lets us appreciate God's beautiful creations around us. Most of us are so busy we hardly have time to appreciate such things. Doing this can be therapeutic for some people.

Many thanks for your wishes. I am wondering too, how come I got so many responses, in such a short span of time. I think, my discussion was included in the 'Daily Mylot Digest'. Interestingly, majority of the respondents say that they would love to sit in a garden for an hour. Your reply appears practical and honest to me, but I understand that you have a strong determination and will to sit all alone in a park/garden for one hour or may be more than that. I agree with you that while sitting, you can enjoy beauty of the nature and enjoy bird watching, if it is in my hand, I'll definitely help you 'spare' you one hour, meanwhile, when you are away to the garden, I'll look after your work.....LOL! Did you ever try this? It looks good idea to me.........but I may not be practically able to implement the same, because I do not have enought patience........to sit for an hour or so.........I am very impatient..........LOL! Many thanks for dropping in and sharing.

I never tried, you know why, going to park without my kids, I can't imagine. Thanks for your helping mentality, I know pratically it is not possible. Thanks again.

I understand that your time and other activities are more important to you, rather than sitting spending time in a partk. You appear very practical. Many thanks for dropping in.

Please just try and to it some fine day and let me know your experiences. Best of Luck!

You are welcome, my friend but being a single parent i have so many things and chores that needs to be done. That is why, i would be very happy if i could have some time to spend just sitting in the park with nothing to do at all. It will give me the chance to relax.

Many thanks for your wishes. I am wondering too, how come I got so many responses, in such a short span of time. I think, my discussion was included in the 'Daily Mylot Digest'. Interestingly, majority of the respondents say that they would love to sit in a garden for an hour. I understand that you have a strong determination and will to sit all alone in a part for one hour or may be more than that. I agree with you that while sitting, you can enjoy beauty of the nature and enjoy bird watching. I buy your argument that theoritically, it looks very good to assume that you should sit in a garden all alone and should introspect yourself and feel relaxed and de-stress, but is it possible practically for people like us, who are always in a tension of executing one task or the other...........LOL! How many times did you attempt the same? It looks good idea to me.........but I may not be practically able to implement the same, because I do not have enought patience........to sit for an hour or so.........I am very impatient..........LOL! Many thanks for dropping in and sharing.

Ha! Ha! ha!......ha! Now you given the practical and realistic answer to my question.............!! I am happy to read it. But after reading so many responses/view, I am feeling to give it a try one day, hope it will be fruitful..........!!

Infact Dpk......this discussion of yours has only appeared in today's mylot digest .I guess this is a simple but very appealing discussion which every one can relate to , and so many are commenting to it..... Well its not possible for me to sit everyday on a bench all alone and with nothing to do..,Dpk..I only meant once in a blue moon......I too am a restless person by nature,and sitting idle will be a big punishment for me.....

Hi! Dear! I think you have spoken your true feeilings. You can be in a garden or a beautiful park to enjoy the beauty and nature but to my mind also, after 15-20 mintues, one starts feeling restless (same is the case with me). If you walk in the garden, you will get busy, but sitting idle and only watching nature, cannot go for a longer duration........., this is what I feel. Thanks for enriching the post and sharing your feelings. Have a great day! Take Care! Lots of Love! Deepak

You're most welcome! Enjoyed your discussions always. lovelots..faith

You appear to have strong determination and will power to sit in a Garden all alone. Keep it up! Thanks for dropping in. dpk P.S. - I see you are quite a senior member here, as your number of posts is more than 9600. I wonder, why did not we see each other in any of our discussions.

Hello! Aisa! It is nice to know that you can sit on a seashore for hours together. I can also sit on a sea beach for hours together and can enjoy the beauty of the sea, without any hurry or restlessness. However, my question was about sitting in a garden or park, will you be able to sit there for one hour, all alone? Thanks for sharing and joining us.

well, if it's only for one hour, then I can do it alone there..hehehe

I appreciate your thought that most of the people will sit in garden with a purpose or motive in their minds. You have given a very good example of Sir Isac Newton. It appears to me from your reply that you can sit all alone in a garden for hour and can enjoy yourself. You seems to have plenty of patience. Thanks for sharing and extending your wishes, as always.

I understand that you have the patience and will to sit all alone and it is really great on your part that while sitting there you can introspect and make plans. You appear a very level headed person. Many thanks for dropping in and sharing.

i agree with you shif

You are showing the determination and will power to sit in a Garden all alone. Keep it up! And Meditation is a good option. Thanks for joining us.