I saw him with another girl.

i think for you to take this as a sign for you to move on. ofcourse it is natural for you to be hurt (it just goes to show you're human). but always think positive about these things. it will help you heal and move on. look forward to the day when you see them together one day and you wouldn't feel anything at all. it means you're free of him. make yourself busy, take a hobby, meet other people (even just as friends), and when you feel down and out think of why the relationship ended in the first place; why in the end it's better for you. cheers!

i experienced that a long time ago.. but the pain, i can still feel it.. he was my first love. we separated because my friends said he had another girl, i said i wont believe it unless i can see them.. me and my friends are at the mall, to wacth movie, when we are finished, we go out, and there i saw them holding hands and laughing. its like my eyes, blackout, and heart stubbed and wanna disappear forever... it was like the longest second i can remember. my friends just pull me to the side and calm me. i jsut end up crying for a whole week. sigh.

to get over the heartbreak it kinda diffficult at first but as days go by you take a good look yourself and reflect a little bit and you take a look at the person who hurt u and you say " Why and what for ?" sometimes you come out as the better person meanwhile the other person who hurts you gets hurt back in the long run. you let them do what they want , and dont ever run behind them and say " Take me back Please take me back " naw dont ever do that , because if u were a great person in the relationship he'll remember how it was and how u made him feel great on his saddest days , but U go on i wudnt say outcast him out ur life , but dont run behind him and be jealous of the next girl hes with

I know, you think you have everything under control and then it hits you right in the heart. It will get better time is the healer, so just don't forget to breath smile and no one but you will know how you feel.