Advice.

@Lore2009 (7378)
United States
February 5, 2009 1:40pm CST
Who do you go to for advice? I used to go to some people who I thought were my friends, but they ended up giving me only politically correct perspectives. Now I only go to people who advise me with wisdom or helps me to lead my own self to figure things out on my own. A lot of people, I found tried think they know how to fix problems when they are totally clueless. Don't you agree? Do you go to everybody and anybody for advice or to the ones who will make you think?
3 responses
@vrajase (17)
• United States
5 Feb 09
I tend to ask a few people for their opinion and then will do a little research using the internet. Before I make any final decisions, I always consult the one person I trust the most, besides myself, my husband. I then will take all the information and make a decision because like you said...friends sometimes are afraid of your reaction if they tell you what they truely feel. You cannot trust many people in this world and the best thing you can do is educate yourself.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
6 Feb 09
Yes, that's really true, we must educate ourselves. Thanks for the reply!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
5 Feb 09
Most of us aren't any smarter than anyone else. It all depends on your experiences. I can only give advice on what i know about so I go to someone who knows what I'm talking about when I ask for advice. I use the internet a lot.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
5 Feb 09
I discovered that a lot of the people I knew still thought they knew my answers to give me lame advices, haha. But yes, we are all in this 'struggle' together.
@abukomar (43)
• Indonesia
5 Feb 09
well, first person that i ask for advice is my parents. why? because the have spent their life with for a long time, so i think they are very understand about my problem. second, is my friend of course. but, don't ask an advice to many people, because what? because if we ask more and more advice to many person, we can find a correct advice. so, ask an advice to parents and very closest friend that you have. cheer.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
5 Feb 09
Yes, I go to my family for advice now. They are the wisest and they have time to care.