Sometimes You Just Need a Good Cry
By ladym33
@ladym33 (10979)
United States
February 5, 2009 3:49pm CST
I am not having a very good day today. I am stressed out because today I just found out that we have another un-expected amount of money we have to pay. Things were all ready tight financially and now they are just going to snap.
I guess anything could send me over the edge, but something just got me thinking about my dog that we had to put down about a year and a half ago. That just sent me over the edge, the dog always made feel better when I was sad and stressed n=ou and now she is not here.
I have just been balling my eyes out for the last 20 minutes. I think I just really needed to have a good cry.
Does this every happen to you?
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26 responses
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
Yes I think having a good cry sometimes can help us burst our emotions and ease the sadness we are feeling. I have been doing that since I got married when I have no one to talk to except my four month old son because my husband is at work and I don't want him to know I am sad. I am sad because I want to get back to work but can not do anything since we have no babysitter yet. I am sad whenever I think that I am no longer giving money to my sister who is still in college. I was the one who sent her to school since 1st year and she is now in 3rd year she just got a part time job in a fast food. I am sad when I think that my husband is having a hard time at work, earning all the money to pay the house rent, electric bills, water and cable. But after crying all those tears wipe out my sadness then I feel better and back to normal again. Sometimes it helps to cry not because you are hurt but just because you feel stressed and sad. So my advice to you is go ahead and do that with a little whisper of prayer...then you will feel better.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
5 Feb 09
I have always been a bit of a cryer, it doesn't take much to set me off, I guess i am a very sensitive person and I also feel over peoples pain so i even spend a lot of time crying about things that don't even have anything to do with me...I hope things work out for you...
@yorkshirewriter (170)
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6 Feb 09
It has often been said that laughter is the best medicine and in some ways I agree with that. Over the years I have found having a good old cry can be a great way to clear out the things getting us down. It released a negative build up of emotions and can make a person feel quite uplifted afterwards.
Try to think back on the happy times you shared with your dog rather than the sadness and feelings of loss at not having her with you.
@txcheerleadr90 (293)
• United States
6 Feb 09
There is ALWAYS something coming up that stresses me out. Especially money! But I do my best and that's really all you can do. But i'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. And yes, It does feel good to have a good cry. It lets out emotions. I do it about everyday. But then i'm fine and happy the rest of the day! ;)
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
5 Feb 09
hi, yeah it has happened to me when I was facing divorce and not knowing how I could pay for things. I called my aunt, she is a social worker and she told me to look in to a consolidation loan from my credit union. I got approved and the payments were smaller than if I tried to pay on the individual bills. Hope you will start feeling better.
@rhlagarwala (3)
• India
6 Feb 09
I am also crying when my mood is bad or some one hurts me ,he/she may be my friends,family ,relatives etc...i just feel to cry a lot..
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
we all need a good cry, that is why there are lacrimal glands in our eyes to release stresses that we can't bear to ease our minds and to have peace of mind. isn't it after crying we feel better even how mountainous our problem is, which the way we should think and feel about our problems.
@ryzach (1544)
• United States
6 Feb 09
It's now 10:30 at night and I did not have a very good day either and felt like crying my eyes out too but was at work and it was hard enough holding back the tears. Just couldn't concentrate on work , so I made several mistakes, and was having alot of trouble focusing due to our financial situation, husband was laid off a couple of weeks ago. A couple of small minor things have come up that I have to put money out for that I was not planning on. It seems like I have to watch every cent. I sure do hope things improve for you real SOON!!!!!!
Sometimes a good cry is what we need. It's okay!!!
@thedaddym (1731)
• United States
6 Feb 09
I am not really a cryer. I am more of a stessor. I shake my leg, I pace, I get really physical when stress and anxiety get to me. I can't sit still, I can't sleep. I am probably iratable with my loved ones. Usually a nice long talk with my wife helps me to calm down. She balances me out.
@zhuuraan (961)
• United States
6 Feb 09
It happens to me, but not for the same reason. Money is tight for me, but I manage. For me, the crying is usually around holidays and it is cuz of a lot of junk that's happened throughout my life with my family and all. Either way it does suck and I agree sometimes you just have to let it out!
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
yah sometimes when everything just piles up and you dont know what to do already, alll you need to do is just cry and let it all out...
i have experienced that especially in school when im already stressed with all the homework and such plus all the drama in the class...T_T
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
6 Feb 09
I do hope you feel better after a good cry.A good cry can always help when you are stressed out.It happened to me ever.My strength comes back after a good cry. Wish you all the best!
@vikeyshuy (284)
• China
6 Feb 09
yes,i like crying when something happened touches my heart or something bad occurs to me.i just can't hold my tears.i don't know why i like crying so much.i just need a way to vent out my feelings.
@allentcl82 (590)
• Singapore
6 Feb 09
yeah, happens to me now.. i fully agreed that a good cry helps.. im 28k+ in debts to the bank, would have to repay all within 3 years, broke off with gf yesterday, mom got stroke may 2008.. ultimately, life goes on.. after the good cry, bite the bullet, face it with courage.. this is what life is all about!!
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
Happens to be all the time, when i feel so stressed out and problems seems to keep on building up, i usually shut myself inside my room and cry my heart out. i guess it really help to release all those emotions that locked up deep inside, those emotions that we usually try to ignore and pretend that it isn't there. After a good cry, I usually feel a lot better already, with more resolve to face each problem one at a time and work my way out.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
Yes, sometimes if i feel so depress and i really wanted someone to cry on.. if i feel this way, i will cry alone, then i will contact a friend to have a good talk and so that i can express what i trully feel... also i can talk to my mother..its' good to have a good cry and to have someone to cry on to ease the pain..and it makes you feel good after a good cry,but you have someone to talk to.. it could really help..
@JanMags (724)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
i often get stressed out trying to make ends meet and looking for ways to succeed for my family's sake. you know what, i find that i can work better after i've cried about my anxieties. i guess crying does help
@hmkoct5 (2065)
• United States
6 Feb 09
Yes, this happens to me quite often! Crying usually makes me feel better, so I just let it rip sometimes. I'm sorry that you are feeling depressed and that money is getting tight. I'm right there with you. We are having the same kind of money issues, especially with me not working. I hope you feel better soon. I'm here if you need me!
@bloodcakelover (420)
• Malaysia
6 Feb 09
its okay for you to cry in a hard situation..it makes you feel so much better after that. im a cryer i just sensitive....and im sure after you cry will get back the spirit to be strong and to face the problem in a positive way.
wish you all the best in ur life...