Is it true when we are in love we be happy?
By rirbry
@rirbry (353)
Malaysia
8 responses
@nansheeca (215)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
yes it is true and when i am inlove i am super happy that problems have no place in my heart. i am all smiles and everybody's a blessing to me.
@Shelly25 (19)
• United States
9 Feb 09
I think that initial love brings us happiness if both people are in love together at the same time. But even in love hard times come. We have hard days, then those who we love can tend to become our trampling mat. So I don't think just because we are in love we will be happy. I think it is important for us to learn how to be happy individually. Once we are able to figure out how to be happy on an individual basis through hard times and in tough situations, then that love that we have with someone else and for someone else will bring us an even greater happiness. If you are not happy and you fall in love with someone. There may be a temporary happiness but that happiness will not last. It needs to come within. That person cannot be expected to make your life completely happy for you. Because the time will come when they for some reason dissapoint you. Maybe not even on purpose but it will happen. When that time comes if the only reason why you are in the relationship is because the love was making you happy. That relationship will falter and possibly end. If you want the relationship to last then be happy on your own and then when that disappointment time comes, you can work with them through those hard times and come out closer in the end. Your happiness will end up growing together and be more fulfilling I think.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
8 Feb 09
Being happy would be something that is felt when one is in love. There are other emotions too that come and a lot of these are not so nice.Cheers!!!
@shiena888 (72)
•
6 Feb 09
in my case yes its true....even if you're having a really bad times....im still happy....its just like in a song..."i'd rather have bad times with you....than good times with some one else...i'd rather be beside you in a storm...than safe and warm by myself....i'd rather have hard times together...than to have it easy apart....i'd rather have the one who holds my heart..." cos you know after all the hardships you've been through....at the end of the day...just one smile...just one look on his face....it makes it all go away....and it actually melt your heart too....
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
6 Feb 09
No! When I have been in love I thought I was happy! NOT! I was miserable! I became a person I thought I should be! NOT! I didn't like that person! It wasn't me! I am better being dependent on myself and not in love!
@30quidaday (46)
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6 Feb 09
Not always.
i mean, love can bring happiness but hard work and commitment is needed to ensure that you and your partner are both just as mad for each other as the day you first met. Otherwise a situation can develop where you love each other, there is no doubting that, but the couple can no longer stand to even look at one another without arguing.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
6 Feb 09
When I was in love, I wa extremely happy to have someone to thought about. To obsess my time with that significant someone. I was willing to take on my time and my everything with her. I guess that statement is true in its nature.