should I or shouldn't I
By bamiofar
@bamiofar (104)
United States
February 6, 2009 1:16am CST
Have you seen the movie "40 Year Old Virgin"? Well, that's me! Yup, actually I'm older than 40 and I've still not lost my cherie. I am a Cherie Boy. Oh, I've come close a couple of times. I've had a few girlfriends that knocked my socks off but I've always been able to take a deep breath, keep it zipped and make it home with my honor intact. Once a very beautiful and agressive young girl had me stripped down all the way to my tighty whities but I made it out alive, no problema.
Now don't get me wrong. There's been lots of kissing and huggin and snugglin but I've always kept it in my pants. Well, lately I've got a new girlfriend and... well... I think it's getting serious. She's perfect for me. Beautiful, smart, and she loves me for who I am. It's all good. My only problem is....
I've lived my whole life the way I've lived it and now I may have to give the whole thing up because of this beautiful and loving person who has entered into my life.
My question for all or you is:
Should I give it up or should I just go for the record and go my whole life without it? On one hand I could live without it. I have lived without it this long, why not longer?
On the other hand I may be jeopardizing my relationship with this beautiful woman that I love. I guess if I want to keep her happy I'll have to break down and have some hot steamy lovin for about 3 or 4 days in a row. And then I guess I'll have to do it again and again and again...
Enough to make up for all the time I've lost.
Well anyway...
What would you do?
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4 responses
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
6 Feb 09
one must say well done to you, on having done the deed. there's a good post a few weeks back about virginty and would you do it with your friend just to give them the experience of doing it. i think it was called "would you" any way i would suggest if both really love each other go for it, or wait a bit longer to see how things go living together etc.
your not the only male out there that's not done it, my work mate hasn't and he's nearly in his mid 30's, not even had a girlfriend. the boss said he's pretty picky, could of had heaps of girls but hasn't. he lives by him self and may already starting down the track of not wanting to change things, about having a partner let alone kids.
you'll know what and when to do things, just go with your gut instinct.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
6 Feb 09
well, first of all you deserve a prize or a gift or at least a 'Congratulation' that you are still a virgin applied all its semantic level. Now for your 'to be or not to be' state, I must add that this is your life and you live your way. You are talented enough to measure things up for yourself. You know yourself better than anybody else. Now if you feel you wont be able to keep your beautiful and lovable one happy at the cost of your long preserved treasure it is better you pull out and if you think you are just like another human fellow and need a family of your own you have to make truce with your asset. The ball is in your court. If feel like playing it away do it or else leave it and enjoy your longer period. lol
@sassymama1974 (178)
• United States
31 Mar 09
First of all I'm very proud of you for waiting this long its very rewarded to hear that your not bopping anything and everything around like a lot of men do.I personally believe you waited this long till you find the right one.If your still not ready and she excepts it and stays she sounds like she maybe the one for ya.If it were up to me you waited this long you can wait till your wedding night :)
