Oh that's so sexy

ok here I go trying to explain the method of my madness. LOL!!By ther way Hi pikey my luv. I go by several things some of them are sight, smell, touch.. you know ... A guy can have the pants and the shirt that fit just right and then Drakar Noir (I'm so turned on by that, attacking type turn on. giggles). Say if the guy that I'm interested in is wearing a nice silk dress shirt with a pair of tight black jean with longish hair and has the cologne mentioned and comes up behind me and puts his arms around me and hugs or holds me close then lowers he face to my throat and nibbles on it and my ear and ok I'll stop there this is just a little bit of things that can arouse my passions. What is truly sexy is a guy that is not afraid of pleasuring his partner and being attentive to her as well as knowing what he want and being able to effectively acheive and communicate both.

Hi p1ke, have never really thought of thie meaning of this word to me, and being frank and ernest I think I have forgotten what it would mean to me!! LOL hugs littleowl

Long hair on men, I love to see a man with nice clean long hair, I have always liked men with long hair maybe it is the primitive in me I don't know, I used to always say when a someone doesn't have long hair it is like a picture without a frame..

Subtlety in all things (clothes, make up, expression, gesture, voice) is sexy. An aura of mystery, danger, unattainability.........it's the challenge, the invitation to pursue, that sets off our pheromones and makes the object of our newly developed desire appear sexy in the truest sense of the word. Not the cheap, hang it all out for the world to see and goggle at kind of sexy, which frankly, I don't find sexy at all, just sad.

A guy who loves children and who knows how to cook. I am not sure if this is what you meant but i find guys who does love children and loves to cook more appealing.

'Sexy'- is it so? Yes, this is a word that covers half of the Sahara. I mean from libido and sexuality to true pure appreciation either of a person or an object. just like if I say wow!! how sexy is is your way of starting a discussion, I bet there is not any implicit hint towards asexuality. To say anything 'sexy' is a vogue these days I dare say. What is your opinion?

I have no girlfriend, but one of my very close friend, I find her sexy when she weres blue or yellow top and has her curly hairs open and she faces to the sky, this whole picture infront of my eyes looks really very sexy, and sometimes I do get a feeling if she would be my girlfriend.

That's hard to define because what is sexy to one person isn't necessarily sexy to another. But sexy is anything that makes a person go oh la la..and and in most cases turns them on. Sexy to me a man who over looks a woman size and isn't afraid to talk to her or be seen with her. that is sexy. makes my heart all gushy..lol

Hmmmmm.....I haven't really looked lately, but in the past I usually look at their eyes and their self confidence (probably because I have none!). But it can be something really strange, like the night I picked up a guy in the bar just because I could, or seeing a hint of chest hair peeking out from the open V of my boyfriend's shirt (before we hooked up)... I know I'm such a geek!

Sexy is truly in the mind of the beholder. What one person finds sexy another will not. We normally associate sexy with looks but is it really? When you stop and think of all the Hollywood actresses, as an example, that are considered hot or sexy you find that many may not turn you on at all. So what is it that makes us take notice? That is of course your question. It is a very difficult thing to answer because it is different for every person. I find that intelligence in a woman makes her far more alluring to me than what she looks like. Oh I appreciate good looks as much as any man but when it comes to finding that one that really turns me on it is almost unquantifiable. It may be the color of her hair, style of her hair, high cheek bone structure, a sultry look that just melts you. But upon meeting her what really gets my attention is her presence. The total person. Great personality, easy to talk with, and of course she must be able to put a sentence together. For me I find that there are some women that are considered very hot that I find there is something not quite right. As I said it is all in the mind of the beholder.

Oh that is a tough one as I never think about what is sexy or not. I either am attracted to someone or not but I do not think in terms of sexy. I once asked a male friend of mine what it meant as I had no idea. He says it is the way a person feels in side and it shows in the way they move and look etc. As to provoking passions then I would think more in terms of romantic and thoughtful rather than sexy as such. Focusing on me and doing things for me, like cooking me a nice meal and just paying me special attention. Then there is the dominance side of things that is quite sexy as long as it is what he is and not someone trying to act that way. There is a big difference there and I have met both kinds.

Wonderful discussion topic, p1key. Brilliant! Well, let's see......... If I was getting a massage, by someone who smelled wonderful, the setting was serene in some way, I was naked under my towel, lying there....waiting a little, and they were succeeding in relaxing me with their strokes on my body, my skin........ooooo, P1key, now you got me all hot and bothered. What are you going to do with me now, eh?

They say the definition of 'sexy' is a man in the kitchen ... COOKING. I'd rather have one of those than one in the bedroom doing anything else. Or maybe not. In my experience, a cooking man leaves so much mess you might as well have cooked yourself in the first place ...

Everything about Hubby is sexy from his dark piercing brown eyes to the way that he takes care of me so well when I am sick to buying me a bouquet of flowers for no reason to the way he tells me "I love you"...and he has been this sexy and more for the last 26 years that we have been married...we just celebrated 26 years 2 days ago! ;)

Antonio Bandeiras in Desperado. That's tingling. I'm not sure I've spelt his name right, but that would be the least of my worries 'if everything was just right'. I wouldn't be thinking of writing to him.

I once had a boyfriend that loved to just look at me and I felt that was such a turn on..seeing his eyes looking at me and then i looking back...to this day i love men's eyes and will find myself always looking into their faces to see how they look back.. I also love men's hands..if a man has nice hands I get all turned on knowing what they can do to me..mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Hey p1ke! I wish I knew what sexy was! I'm not sure I can remember anymore! I think that I need a refresher course in what it means! Am I getting too old to know or has it changed somehow in its meaning? I used to think that I knew! Now I'm just not so sure! I still think having a nice romantic meal by candlelight with the one you love is the utmost in "sexy". Am I wrong? Too way off? Please tell me?

light caresses. Spontaneity. Intrigue. That is some of what does it for me. Things that are oversexulized are actually a turn off to me.

Hi p1kef1sh, You know what I find truely sexy in a man when he's clean shaven, I don't know what it is about a look of a male when he had a close shave and I don't mean any male, my male I think it's so so sexy but it doesn't make me want to rip his clothes off just think god your sexy! how about you what makes you think "Oh that's so sexy?"

Many men use the word "sexy" to admire some women.I don't like the word.To me it's a vulgar expression to admire a woman.The word "charming" can be used instead of "sexy".