Ever felt like - this world doesnt have your type of girl\boy ?

@mzkfrk (23)
India
February 6, 2009 2:54pm CST
I am in my early twenties and its been a long long time(7yrs) since i have genuinely liked any girl. Am i being too choosy? Are "my type" of girls really out of stock? Have you people ever felt like this? What could be the reason? P S :- Of course i havnt swung the other way :P.
6 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
6 Feb 09
I dont think our "type" limits the opitions for finding someone. I have to admit the man I am dating now is the farthest thing from my "type". He said hi to me one day and it was like magic. I used to lean towards guys who seemed like the so called good guy image whereas my man has the bad boy image with tattoos piercings, purple hair and more. And I honestly couldnt love anymore than I love him. So i dont think you should focus on one type of girl.
• United States
6 Feb 09
I haven't found the right girl for me either. You just have to remember that the right girl is out there somewhere. Waiting.
@mzkfrk (23)
• India
6 Feb 09
That's what my friends have been saying all the time. duh! they never wait, you have to find and fix. Thats how everything works in life, not just relationships.
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
not really. i easily get a crush on guys so i think in the physical aspect, "my type" exists. however, i don't really go for guys who ONLY have the looks. i like guys who are smart, caring, and good in the inside, and i know that guy is really hard to fid since that guy is so idealistic. well i'm just seventeen and i'm nbot really in a hurry. i think i'll mature and probably learn to chose someone i can accep perfectly and not someone who is perfect, just like what my values education teacher told me.
• United States
7 Feb 09
My problem is that I know my "type" is out there, cause I had one and lost him but I don't know where to find them here. I am also not particularly happy here so I am really not terribly keen on looking for him here. I am more of the opinion that guys who are my "type" are not interested in me . I like indie kids and while I am one myself, I don't look the part so I can't imagine one ever approaching me.
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
7 Feb 09
My previous relationship was with someone who was nice and okay. It was just normal and I had this notion in mind that one has to make some compromises and everyone has somethings in them that are attractive. I din't bother much about the "my type" thingy. And aftersome time I met my bf who just radically changed it all. He is just perfect for me and totally my type. Fell in love with him the very moment I met him and now I feel I was stupid before when I made compromises. He complements my strengths and makes me feel good about my weaknesses. Being choosy is good when you get what you want:)
@Mozzak (89)
• United States
6 Feb 09
Well nah i usually have no problems in finding a person that i can love,usually my friends hook me up with some gals but i am not very picky about them.I could date a girl and during the relationship, find out that she is not my type and break with her.You will find a loving person as soon as you start looking for them.Don't worrie,be happy friend.Love comes and goes,just like that.I wish you luck with this,and am hoping that you will find love soon.
@mzkfrk (23)
• India
6 Feb 09
so u believe in "hit and trial", but that doesn't go with most of the people because in that case you are the one hurting the girl.