can a love in distance really last??

Hello zulito, one of the few german fellowers here in myLot . I'm at the moment in Malaysia together with my former girl-friend and since Sylvester 2008 we are a married couple. We have met online in Skype in the end of August 2007 and met in October 2007 in Malaysia. From that time on we always tried to be online and talked very much or just chatted, sometimes we made Video-chat because then you feel more connected. In February 2008 i invited her to Germany and we traveled to the big cities (Berlin, Munich, Lake of constance, Frankfurt). After this i quit my job and moved in May to Malaysia. As she is now pregnant and our baby boy will be due in some days, i decided to stay here until she finished her studies in 2010. Then we will go back to Germany. You just must have the will to continue the relationship (i was often jealous in the time when i was not around her but it's over now),only then you can succeed with loving her. Have a great time in myLot!

Friend if its a true love it doesnt matter whether you both a living apart. True love last forever. Dont worry ....... Happy mylotting.

Hi Zulito, I agree true love is something that when you find it, it will last forever as long as you take care of it. I live in the UK and my boyfriend lives in Spain. I know it is only a 2 hour plane ride but with the 2 hour ride to the airport as well it takes it out of you, but it is all worth it. I go from a Friday to a Monday every month if my boyfriend is working, if he is not then he flies in. We have been together now for 15 months now and hopefully by the end of this summer he will be here living with me. We just need to save more and get a place to live. I am glad it is only Spain because he is Chilean and that is a really really long plane ride! It is all worth it for the one you love, so my advice to you is stick with it, you will be glad you did. Good luck with everything. x

Friend if its a true love it doesnt matter whether you both a living apart. True love last forever. Dont worry ....... Happy mylotting.

i'm american and my girlfriend is chinese, we together 2 years now but only physically together 6 months. If you really care then its ok, love is something you know when you have it. Hey, the internet makes it easy now, she on the other side of the world and we chatting video like we are next to eachother. Physical contact does kind of go out the window, but think of what your priorities in life are and what really is important. You can always think of it as a test to your relationship to, if it is meant to be it won't be harder than making phone calls.