hugs and kisses

Uh oh...Do you share mylot with your husband? Because my husband takes the time to read the topics and comments i receive. We have the same views in life. We're both hugs & kisses persons and its already natural for us to hug each other tight and plant lots of kisses on each other's faces even without any particular reason at all. It's not because there's just the two of us (no kids but sometimes my young nieces come over) after six years of marriage. We are now in our middle 40's but our friends and neighbors see us as two newly wed couple (sometimes others say were like teenage boyfriend-girlfriend who live together in the same house). Perhaps we just started on the right track, communication. We can talk about anything under the sun. From the moment we wake up -- with work in between -- and til we go to sleep. We never get tired of talking with each other. About our jobs, problems in the office, and while doing household chores together. And i mean all chores together! Just right this moment while he is watching tv and i'm here mylotting, i ask him every now and then if what i'm writing here is ok or if he can put in a specific word to express myself better.

Oooo... i panicked for nothing - right, that's + for you!

I'm sorry...i don't know what to say... it's like i just saw us in reversed roles. I mean, me the sick one and my husband, the strong, caring one. I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in feb 1993 (my 16th year now). I was still single then, half paralyzed, couldn't speak and helpless (i was then a radio announcer/dj and imagine losing my speech!). I was back to normal after a month as if i was never ill. I met my husband in my late 30's, he a year older. I told him about it and the possibilities of my illness recurring. I shared him everything i learned about MS but he still married me inspite of the knowledge that my case may worsen and i may become a vegetable (there is still no cure. Just my husband massaging my arms and legs whenever it attacks). We are Christians and we believe God has a purpose for everything. Even the fact that we have no children (another ailment that concerns me internally). Thank you for sharing me what you are going through. I am really grateful that God has let me live this life, the past which is full of trials and pain and the present which i joyfully share with my husband. Thank you for people like you, like my husband, who show what love really means. May God bless you even more and His strength be yours...

Isn't that just nice? I wish all husbands are like ours then there will be no more lonely wives out there! Thanks too, friend!

Oh, i am so glad to know God has blessed your marriage with children! We don't have one but we are blessed with nieces and nephews who come to our lovenest on weekends and create fun and laughter! Hugs and kisses really make a couple closer together. Thanks, cass, for sharing your moment here. ^_^