City or Suburb?
By yina24
@yina24 (358)
Philippines
February 7, 2009 8:37am CST
Are you living in a city or in a suburb? right now, My family and I are living in a city because this is where difficult things are getting easier to happen. My husband's job is just near and my daughter's school is just outside the village. Since I am working at home, so I frequently travel outside just whenever I like to or shop and hang out with my family and friends.
Next year, we've planned to buy our own house because we're just renting. The house rental fee is quite high. So all of our relatives said that why don't we buy our own house. Honestly, we cannot afford to pay for a downpayment. So this year, we're really saving alot of our money to set for a house down.
My husband and I were still thinking where should we set our own house. All circumstances were being studied, so we're still in the process of decision making.
If I were you, where would you most like to live: in a city, in a suburb, or in the country? PLease advice..
Thank you very much and have a great day.. ^^
Yina... :)
5 people like this
10 responses
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 09
Currently, I am living in a suburb area after been long time living in city center shrouded with hustle-bustle city community activities really made me hard to feel the serenity and tranquility living. As resistant is otiose or futile, sold that house and bought one new house in suburb area more or less about 20 km. from the city center.
I think you got the perfect timing to purchase new house during this global gloomy economy period of time, where the interest rate is much lower compare to previous time and you can enjoy choosing the appropriate selling price by making comparison method for your final selection.
At the same time, I do believe that you also spare some extra money for mobilization costs on move-in into your new house. That's true saying, yina24; continuous renting one house doesn't end you with property ownership although there is no interest bearing factor included. But, your new house will generate great future market value in the next twenty (20) years and it does covers your interest bearing attached to your borrowing.
Congratulations! in advance, new house with new life and make your new house as your perfect home as well as happy family. I only remember two (2) proverbs when we do talking about home taught by my late mother; Home and hearth* and Home is where you lay your hat**.
[i]*'Home and hearth' is an idiom evoking warmth and security.
**Home is where you lay your hat ~ Wherever you are comfortable and at ease with yourself is your home, regardless where you were born or brought up.('Home is where you lay your head' and 'Home is where you hang your hat' are also used.) [/i]
Property Ownership
2 people like this
@yina24 (358)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
Well Michael, what interest me more in thinking about living in suburb is that I can save my money. Well, to think what others can say that I'd rather cannot save because I need to take travels for long, shopping are far, or sometimes the surrounding doesn't give much of anything that I would need. But with me, I am thinking of spending more time with my family and save money for more. Why and How? because I cannot go out from time to time. I cannot see what's new and hot. Well, making me innocent though probably I would much like it...hehhehehe... But in other cases, we're living in a city right now, right? so for sure, i would miss the things that I did while in the city. Oh.. really hard to choose where to live. Because buying is not that fulfilling to have our own house, but of course the convenience and safeness it would bring to our family.
Thanks for greeting in advance.. :)
2 people like this
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
9 Feb 09
yeah...you're perfectly right and seems the nature is supporting your life now. CHEERS!
2 people like this
@chameleon7 (295)
• China
8 Feb 09
i am living in a city and i have been in this city since i was born. in the past, i think living in the city is a lot better than living in countryside or suburb because it is more convinient. but now, my perception have changed. now the city I am living in getting more and more crowded, a lot of problems surface, such as traffic jams, too packed on public transportation vhiecles... so i prefer suburb, which is not as crowded as urban area and less pollution, not as inconvinient as countryside.
2 people like this
@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Feb 09
I am living in the city right now. It is much more convenient to go to work or go out for some entertainment. But when I am retired, perhaps I will try to live in the suburb as the air will be fresh. And the house can be bigger. Probably I can have my own garden to grow some plants.
I love China
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
8 Feb 09
Living environment is better in suburbs, and in that sense, a house is usually the preference. If you can afford the payment, and can find social facilities nearby, say the schools, hospitals, and malls, a house in the suburbs is a better choice.
But living in downtown might be convenient, for lively people who loves going shopping or other social activities.
2 people like this
@Pistas (95)
• Portugal
7 Feb 09
Due to financial crisis i'm actually moving from suburbs to the city because it's like you said "this is where difficult things are getting easier to happen".It's not that i don't like the city, it's just that i consider myself a quiet/calm person and i never liked many people in one place.Sometimes you can't even walk straight in big cities,it's all a mess.But the countryside is too dull for me too.So for me,the suburbs are the best.
2 people like this
@yina24 (358)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
I onced live in a suburbs and did suffered for a long way drive home to work and vice versa. That's why I can state that living really in a city has alot of advantages, but equivalent to its disadvantages, too.. well, i'll just have to consider more about it.. thanks PIstas.. :)
2 people like this
@luckyangel78 (487)
•
7 Feb 09
Hi Yina, I have lived in London all my life and when I had children I moved to a suburb an hour away from London. I did this as I wanted a better life for my kids as London is getting a bit rough with gangs and crime.
Its been over two years now and I am happy but for the first year I hated it and missed city life. I'm not 100% sure I made the right move as my partner has to travel to London everyday for work which gives us less quality time and all our friends and family live in London so we don't see much of them lately.
It depends on a lot of things, work, friends, family and money. Try and imagine living where you are thinking about and do you see yourself happy there. I wish you all the best with your move:)
@yina24 (358)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
Hi luckyangel.. Thanks for advicing... We have lived in a suburb before. Just like what you said, it took us a total of 5hours in the road going to work and going back home. That includes traffic.. (whew).. pretty hard for my daughter before whose just 3 years old then. I hope we can get a house in between.. :)
1 person likes this
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
8 Feb 09
Y'know...yina24, there's an old saying "you can take the girl out of the country, but you can't take the country out of the girl." I grew in the country, moved & lived in several cities...but I could never find real peace, until I moved back to rural environment! But it's to each his own real decision...and shud be based on your life, & life style! I only rely on Mother Nature for stimulus..shopping, etc does not appeal to me. Happy house hunting!
1 person likes this
@yina24 (358)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
thanks alot pergammano.. you're right.. maybe I should ask myself, I mean we should ask ourselves if we can go on with the life living in a suburb.. anyway, if we same up to a decision of going to a suburb, and doesn't like it in the future, we can always move back to a city.. hehhee... :)
1 person likes this
@TnWoman (1895)
• United States
8 Feb 09
hello yina
my family and myself right now live in the city like you do. for the most part of my life, i have always lived in the city. i do not know what it would be like to live out in the country, living miles away from town. and i only takes me minutes to get to wherever that i want to go where that i live and i love it. the grocery stores, post office, restaurants, movies, stores, and even the mall is just minutes from where that i live. and the interstate also runs right by my house and i live close by to the airport. so there is lots of different things that one can enjoy living in the city like that to find to do.
take care and have a beautiful evening.
@uniquestar (793)
• India
10 Feb 09
well, we live in a city....and i like it here.....we have also been in a town once.....and we had also lived in a bigger city than this..(in the capital of India)...........my grandparents live in a village and we keep visiting them often......so, i can adjust to any place easily...:-)
and for you,....i am sure you'll decide to get a home in the city and live there,....because your daughter's education will be good there.
have a nice day...:-)
1 person likes this