Do you normally start, respond, or jump in & reply someone else's dicussion?

@zweeb82 (5653)
Malaysia
February 8, 2009 4:44am CST
Are you the type who normally start a discussion in myLot? Or just picking discussion to respond that you find it's easier? Or are you the type who likes to jump into someone's discussion as a 3rd party? Why is that so? What's the ratio like?
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@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
8 Feb 09
God sunday to you, zweeb82, I always login every morning and one or two more times during a day, if I can. I Normally look for responses in my own started discussions, then I start some new once. After that I look for friends started discussions, or my responses on those and try to work them out. My discussion about reading, had a tremendious response and still I have not yet responded to all of the responses I got. Some times, when I see a discussion where someone had responded I might make a response to that to...I like the dialog that make. Dialog gives more like a conservation. Well, I am of to other sites happy sunday
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
A 2 way communication is good. I love the discussions that you start as well & yeah I do agree, good & simple discussions fetch a lot of responses, like the one you mentioned!~ So all the best in your responding & have a good Sunday too!~ God bless you!~
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@eagle_f15 (1827)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
I am a picker....I pick discussions to respond. I do start a discussion once in a while when I have something to start. I haven't jump into a discussion as a 3rd party yet and most likely not going to....don't really like doing that. I feel that the discussion is between the two so it is the two....I don't want to get involve.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
HahaMy wife's a picker, I like that!~ That's why you picked me? HahahaYeah, I too find that jumping into or cutting into a discussion that's between 2 people is kind of rude unless they're people you know of & familiar with. Of course, that at times have to be done tactfully as well I find
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
13 Feb 09
I just surf around the site and find some thing to post about. And when I can think of something good to start a discussion, I will. Some times I do join a discussion as a third party by responding to some one else's responses. It is all random. No particular order of preference.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
13 Feb 09
For me, as long as I find the topic make me think, I will have comments. And when I have comments, I will post it. Heh heh... no particular train of thought towards selecting a discussion as well.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 09
I think I realize why now I do what I did. Sometimes a discussion can be very interesting but then after looking at the one who started it respond, it sometimes puts me off so I don't respond, hahaSome are purely fetching responses & some the way they respond it's like they're wanting to pick a fight? Hahah
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 09
Hmmm, random, I like it. I guess I don't really have a set pattern as well come to think of it? Sometimes I can speed read through the discussions but not respond as well? HahaBut I find that kind of silly so I try to cut down on that, haha
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• Philippines
8 Feb 09
Hi.. I rarely start discussions.. just when i need to ask something.. I am more of a topic responder than topic starter.. Im the type who chooses what topic to respond to.. I prefer responding to topics that I know I have something to share..
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• Philippines
8 Feb 09
I am actually both. When I think of a nice topic, I start a discussion. But if not, I usually post responses to discussions I have a say to or interests me. That's how it goes for me.
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
That's cool. I've actually just realized that I've started quite a number of discussions but I must say I respond to discussions more & yes, only those that interest me of course
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@shiva529 (285)
• India
8 Feb 09
hi i prefer to respond discussions than starting it..it will be easier to me respond discussions of my interest..to start a discussion i think twice that the topic is interesting or not then i search for any similar discussions which was previously started or not....
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
True, it's actually a mylot rule that one should not start same discussions so I do survey before starting a discussion. Yup, discussions that are of our interests are easier to answer although there might be rare occasions that I might learn & pick up some new things through discussions that are not of my interest
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@nancyrowina (3850)
9 Feb 09
I prefer just replying to discussions really as it's hard to think of discussions that haven't been done before on Mylot really, that doesn't stop lots of people though. When I do start discussions they tend to be off in some interests no one looks at so they don't get many responses anyway, so it's easier just to respond to other peoples.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 09
Yeah, talk about plagiarism, hahaIt's true that if we start discussions in the "not so visited" interests columns, then we'll be fetching less responses. Like I have some discussions with only 1 response? Haha
• Malaysia
15 Feb 09
I'm the type that responds to discussion because i find it easier as i have a little response to the discussion i strated (probably because of the title :) ). I rarely jump in to 3rd party discussion.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 09
HahaYeah, I always see "szechow_ong responded to bla bla bla discussions" hahaHey, congrats for your star by the way
• Philippines
13 Feb 09
I usually respond to someone's discussion. I seldom post new topic to discuss. I am comfortable to just post my response if there is interesting discussion that I would like to respond to. But there are times that I respond to the response of others if it really interests me.
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 09
I guess I'm into the responding type as well until lately I got chattier? What I mean is I started a few more discussion of late. If not, I'm just the responding type as well. I do jump into discussions occasionally when it's an interesting thread but normally they are people I know of but if it's really ReallY REALY an interesting discussion, I can't help but to dive in? Haha
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
9 Feb 09
Normally I start off by responding to discussions started by my friends or in the Interests. Sometimes I comment on somebody's response even though it is not my discussion. Why? It depends on my mood. I am not into starting discussions since many of the topics that I have touched so far are rather serious. Sometimes there are people who misread what I wrote. all the best, rosdimy
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
9 Feb 09
I normally have the habit of going into "friends started" tab under discussions as well. I seldom go into the other interests section unless I find that I've run out of discussions to respond. The only interests section I go to is the computer section, hahaYup, jumping into discussions can be mood dependent. Thanks for responding!~
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
16 Feb 09
Hi,mostly I respond to others'discussions that interest me.I prefer to start my own discussions coz then I have some expectation here.lol.But its never easy since Im not creative enough to think of popular discussions. Seldom do I jump into someone's discussions as a 3rd party.Its indeed easier to respond to discussions.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 09
HahaI guess majority here would agree it's easier to respond to discussions compared to starting one as it's not always you get responses, hahaI've even started a discussion in my early stage when I just joined not long ago but with no responses even up till this day, ahaha
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
9 Feb 09
I find it hard to start a new discussion. So, I simply pick the easier ones to respond to that match my interests. I also respond to the discussions that are started by my friends on mylot.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
9 Feb 09
It's generally easier to reply to a discussion than to start a new one, unless we have something to ask I guess? Haha
• Philippines
13 Feb 09
hello zweeb, the first thing I do when I open myLot is to respond in the different interesting topics. I just want to read other person's ideas. take care
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 09
That's cool!~ We can actually learn a lot of stuff from here. Take care
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Hello zweeb82! At first, I started a new discussion everyday but as time goes by, I ran out of topics to discuss that I responded more to the discussions than make my own. Now I am more on responding to discussions from time to time.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 09
Yeah rite....
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 09
Oh ok, I'm think I'm the exact other way round? HahaI was responding more but now I'm more in the "starting discussion" mood? HahaBut I normally respond to discussions more unless I have something to ask or exprees
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• United States
14 Feb 09
I can tell by the number of your post zweeb82! hehee
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
8 Feb 09
Guilty of all three! But find that I spend more time responding to discussions, than I do in initiating....and yes, have been third party in a lot of topics, as I don't think there are any rules regarding conversation! It would be like saying you can only talk to one person at a time....do you not sit around with 2 or 3 people and discuss things! Peaceful Sunday!
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
HahaThere's no rules against that as I do jump into discussions myself as well but most of the times tactfully as I don't want to disrespect or offend anyone unnecessarily
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@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
Hi, When I have something to ask, I will start a new discussion. Normally, I will just join someone else's discussions.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
I guess that's the easiest way to go
@May2k8 (18371)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 09
Hi zweeb82, i picking discussion to respond and i don't jump into someone's discussion as a 3rd party. I opening multi task browser, to read a discussion and to response a discussion. If i have time to make a new discussion, so i could create a new discussion with searching the discussion before i posting a new discussion. I try to responding all of discussion if i can.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
I guess it's easier to respond discussions than starting one unless we have something to ask. Thanks for responding