How to love your spouse forever and make your spouse love you forever ?

I have been married going on 21 years and what I would have to say held us together for this long is that we RESPECT one another. When married couples have problems such as finances, family, and whatever else you would like to throw in there the trick is to talk about it and come to a compremise and settle things that have both of you walking away feeling as if you won. Betrayal starts in the mind way before one acts it out. It is important to always realize if your marriage is in a rutt and when it is time to add some extra zing to it. You should continue to go out on dates with your spouse where it is just you and him. Be romantic caring loving supportive. Most of all love them for the person they are because trust me as we get older many things physically change with us and you have to trully love your spouse from the inside out.

I wonder too... It looks like it's very easy like when you love him/her, he/she will love you too but... there are too many stuff involved so I really don't know. I hope I can have a forever promising relationship forever too. Wish you the best!

..hi siongkai.. couples who lived together until old age are living proofs that there is really love that could last forever,.. They say that if you want your love one to stay with you, do things that will let him or her feel that he/she can't live without you.. the security felt by both partners being together is very important.. Love and trust always go together.. that's what people say and I do believe in it.. Once we decide to be with the person throughout our life, no matter what happens, we will stick together.. in pain or in happiness.. that is a vow taken during the day of marriage.. Both partners need to work out their love and see to it that no day will pass by without letting your partner fell that he/she is loved.. their will always be temptations.. that's a part of being into a relationship..however, if these temptations will be handled carefully, it will just pass without hurting any of the couple.. I just got married and I do hope that these things which were shared to me sill serve also as a guide for me to stay with my husband throughout the days of my life here on earth.. Try to give yourself a second chance.. As they say, love is sweeter the second time around..