are you ready for marriage
By willy6
@willy6 (498)
Jamaica
February 9, 2009 3:35pm CST
When constructing a building it can be expensive, bur caring for its long-term maintenance is costly as well. It is a little similar with marriage. Getting married seems challenging enough, but maintaining a relationship years after years must be considered. marriage is a wholehearted commitment. The bible describe it as follows. "a man will leave his father and his mother and he must stick to his wife and they must become one flesh. If they are not ready for this commitment, then they are not ready for marriage. Marrriage is a very serious step to take, I am not saying that it must be perfect. There will be difficulties, but how couples handle it will determine the outcome. It is not easy for two persons with two different personality living together, but one must realize when they join together they become one, and that says a lot.
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4 responses
@basel_2006 (5)
• Jordan
10 Feb 09
I think that you will be ready for marriage when you have money. because most of the problems that happen between a couple are financial problems.
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
Yes, very much, but it seems marriage is not ready for me.LOL!I really want to get married because it comes to the point that I want to build a family and raise children. I am also very ready and prepared since 3 years ago, but it seems guys are not interested with me that nobody approaches.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
10 Feb 09
I think I am ready for marriage. I know maintaining a relationship can be hard, but nothing could be harder than a long distance relationship. I think the way couples deal with the hardships are what makes or breaks a relationship and a lot of people that don't realize that and think marriage should be the same thing as dating.
@jhoannejoj (963)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
Hi willy6.. At this point in my life I can say that Im not ready to get married--YET. I found a wonderful person four years and 7months ago and been deeply committed.. But still I cant enter into a lifetime vow at this point in my life. I still have so much things to do first before I decided to tie my knot with my boyfriend. Im lucky he's being understanding and supportive. You are right in there that marriage should be a wholehearted commitment, so thats why I have to be so ready in all aspects. Im praying that all my plans will fall accordingly before I run out of time.
