does it really matter?

Philippines
February 9, 2009 6:26pm CST
my boyfriend said to his friends that i am the opposite of his ideal girl. does it matter? its like this, his ideal girl dont drink and just want to stay in home. while i am not really a hard drinker but only on occassions and i love to roam around. i know we love each other. and we are happy with each other. can it affect our relationship? what should i do? thank you in advance for your responses.
2 responses
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
10 Feb 09
How did you find out that your boyfriend said this? Is he making it a big deal? Having an ideal person is something your brain makes up while who you really choose is the heart. I don't think you need to worry about that if you love him and he loves you.
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iansheila
@iansheila (175)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
i was with them when he said it.. really. thank you. that really helps me.
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
10 Feb 09
You should tell him that it bothered you a bit... well, I guess it depends on how he said it. Communications is key! Good luck!
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xtedaxcvg
@xtedaxcvg (3189)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Don't worry.. you won't always end up with your dream boy/girl. As long as he loves you and you love him then everything else won't matter. Love blinds your senses..
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iansheila
@iansheila (175)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
oh.. i love what you said. it enlightens me.. now i will not be worried by what he said. thank you for your response.