Will you offer your seat for an elderly?

@siomaiii (238)
Philippines
February 9, 2009 7:47pm CST
This is the situation. You are comfortably seated in the bus, when an elderly gets in with no vacant seat available. What will you do? Will you vacate your seat and let the elderly sit? What if it is a long travel, will you still offer your sit?
4 people like this
14 responses
• United States
25 Feb 09
absolutely. it won't kill me to stand for awhile. i get disgusted when i see teens refusing to get up in that case.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
I agree, standing for a while doesn't kill. And I hope teens nowadays will be more respectful to elders.
@hershiez (464)
25 Feb 09
Heya siomaiii! ^_^ Yes, I will offer my seat for an elderly even if it is a long travel. ^_^ Showing respect to them is a great manner. And I believe that, if you want to be respected, you should know how to respect others to0! ^_^
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Thanks for sharing! You are absolutely right!
@myralmedo (815)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
honestly? yes! i still practice offering my seat to an elderly or handicap people.. sometimes they refused but we still have to offer the seat/s to them... there's no harm if we will at the end of the day it's a happy feeling that we helped other people and who knows good karma comes and when we get old same scenario and same response on what we did years ago ;) Godabless!0=)
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
You are right! The world needs more people like you.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
11 Feb 09
Yes, I do this and I don't mind if its a short or a long travel! I have this kind of situation happen in the bus, there are so many mans sitting and two elderly woman get in the bus, but none of these mans give up their seat, instead me and another woman are the only person who have the guts to give up our seat. It makes me happy to this and knowing that there are some people do the same.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
It really feels great if you have done good things for other people. Continue touching people's lives Cjay77!
@DEVONECO (144)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Sure I will - to the elderly, frail, pregnant, clergy, handicapped - or for that matter, any lady. My parents and teachers instilled these habits in us and am proud to be doing them yet. My sons too have acquired these habits from me and I am proud of them too. I think its also a "man" thing.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
You are a great parent!
• United States
25 Feb 09
of course I would give up my seat. I have high respect for the elderly. It was just the way I was raised.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
I salute your parents, they raised NuttyMomma warm-hearted!
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 09
Yup, I will - unless I'm sick and can hardly stand. Just imagine if that elderly person is one of your parents/grandparents, you would appreciate if someone would give up the seat to them.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
For sure, they will understand if you can't give up your seat for a very important reason. Thanks for responding!
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
10 Feb 09
I will offer my seat.Just suppose you were the old man.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
You have a point! Treat other people the way you want to be treated.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
10 Feb 09
I always leave my seat when an elderly person gets on the bus and there are no other seats available. I would do the same thing if it was a long journey. I think it is way of being polite and showing consideration, and many elderly person are thankful or happy when they get a seat in a crowded bus, but not all. I once gave up my seat for an elderly woman and she got very insulted, asking me: "Do I really look that old?" I think she was around 80, and she had trouble standing, but she still refused the seat. The same thing has happend to me a few other times, but most of the people have been happy to get a seat.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
I think what is important is that you tried to reach out to that woman by offering her your seat eventhough she refused. God bless you always!
@wheel416 (1019)
• Canada
10 Feb 09
Well, No I wouldn't nor could I personally. Why? It's not because I am extremely rude or inconsiderate of anothers needs. It's because I am in a wheelchair myself! So, I come equipped with my own chair so I always have a place to sit and I never have to give up my seat for anyone else because it was made specifically for me... then again it probably a good thing I can't give my seat away because you would probably hsve to pick my sorry butt of the floor after 5 minutes and that wouldn't be a pretty sight. So, no I'm not gonna give up my seat but, can I get an exemption please just this once ... until next time Happy Mylotting!
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Of course, you are an exemption! People should give sufficient space for you if you are riding on a public transportaion.
@nzl8343 (50)
• China
10 Feb 09
I think i wiil offer my seat for the elderly.But the travel is long,i wiil not.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Thank you for responding and being honest!
@ljbinkop (744)
• United States
10 Feb 09
To answer your question, yes! i would give up my seat to another who needed it, be they handicapped or elerly, or a mother with a child. I think people in this world should be more considerate of other more ofeten.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
I agree, they need the seat more than we do.
@tastemee (111)
• United States
10 Feb 09
oooh good question i always travel by bus and i always give my seat to the elderly even if it is a long ride. its manners and it just looks rude and selfish if you dont
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
I hope more people will be like you!
• United States
10 Feb 09
Well, I've been here a time or two before on the bus, thats what happens when you have to use public transportation to get from here to there. And yes, I have given up my seat to an elderly person whether it be in the front. In the front where there are signs saying you Must give up your seat, but in the back as well. Now there have been occasions when I have offered and the person said no, so I continue to sit there comfortably for the rest of the ride. And I do think that any young person should give their seat up to an elderly person unless they have some sort of disability that requires them to stay seated. I have seen times where little teenagers don't offer and I'm the first to do so, but hey they are old. Thinking about it wouldn't you want someone to offer to your parents or grandparents?
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
You are right! Teenagers should be taught to offer their seats to the elderly, handicapped, pregnant woman, etc. I admire you for giving up your seat for them.