Why are girls so complicated!?

United States
February 9, 2009 11:22pm CST
Why is it that girls never know what they want from us as boyfriends. They seem confused most of the time and seem like we are always doing something wrong. GIRLS and GUYS...i just want to know your opinions about this...
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10 responses
• United States
7 May 09
I can definately say I am not one of those girls. If I want something in the relationship to change I let him know. I know exactly what I want and know how to work with my partner to achieve these goals. Maybe they're just trying to figure you out and see what you want and what they can get out of you. And just because they are confused doesn't mean you've done something wrong.
• United States
7 May 09
You know, i've been in a relationship for the past 5 years with two different girls. The first girl lasted about 2 years, and the second (whom I still see every day) lasted about 3. I've got some advice for you.. Some girls can be remarkably stubborn, and although it might be incredibly frustrating at times, you gotta learn to deal with it. Ever since i was a little kid, my mom used to tell me that in order to lead a successful relationship, the guy always has to admit that he's wrong (even if he's right). I know there's a lot of things wrong with this advice, but it's worked for me so far. Of course, sometimes I get so ridiculously pissed off for having to take the fall for something i DIDNT do wrong, but eventually, i've grown stronger and am now able to withstand more and more. And for the past year and a half of our relationship, she can't FIND a reason to get mad at me! haha
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
gals seems to be very complicated specially in relationship..majority of them do not know how to handle relationship..Girls are changeable mind while boys are constant with their decision..that's why it is more attracting and good to our country if our president is man and not woman..woman will just change their mind easily and wont stick with the decision right away.."Happy mylotting"
@dorayaho (101)
• China
19 Feb 09
That's girls' nature.just be used to it
@neha2k94u (406)
• India
24 Mar 09
Girls only want that you realise them every moment that how much you care, How much you love and what they mean to you... Do you think they want anything else, never... Tell her what you feel about them, What you feel when you are together etc. etc. This will help a lot... For Sure!!!
@prathna (175)
• Canada
7 May 09
well firstly not all girls are like that. secondly its guys who are complicated too you know
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
19 Feb 09
girls are wired that way, so that the guys get all the solutions without much effort of their own.. ;)
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
19 Feb 09
Because Girls Are Designed Like That I think .......
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
..hi.. I am a woman and I understand what you feel.. however, that's already our nature as ladies.. According to research, the mind of a girl is compared to weather that is always changing.. If you have a girlfriend, you need to discover her interests and likes.. Sometimes, ladies have changeable minds.. Not like men who have only one decision and its final.. we are very much cautious of our actions.. we become perfectionist at times.. but you have to understand it.. that's really our nature.. we can never go away from it.. just accept this fact and have more understanding to your gf.
• United States
19 Feb 09
heh dude you gotta get to know her better mate