which life rockss??its single or comitted or married life??
By gunagohan
@gunagohan (3414)
India
February 10, 2009 6:38am CST
which life is really good ???single's life...means roaming every where alone or with friends...
married life- care for partner
comitted life-taking ur girl\boy friend every where u go and spend for them...
im 19 and im single and i love my single's life..i go every where alone and spend my entire pocket money for mee..
whats ur idea??
happy mylotting!!!!
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16 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Hello gunagohan! I guess married life rocks! hahaha..Well, I heard that there are many obstacles to be pass being married and so obstacles means rocks..hehehe..I am kidding.
Well, kidding aside, I like being married. I love the feeling when you know that someone loves you and someone cares for you. I also love the feeling of being in love and my outlook in life change. So I can say that being married rocks!
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
15 Feb 09
gautamaj, i think u are in love since 16....this is a very deep love...i have not heard this much relationship for 6 years in love...u really rock...my advance wishes for u...marry happily and have a happy married life .....thanx...happy mylotting..
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
16 Feb 09
I am engaged and I going to get married in a couple of months. In the past there has been periods where I have been single and periods where I have had a boyfriend, and I prefer being in a relationship. When you are single you have your freedom and you can do the things you want. You never have to compromise on the decisions you make and you don't have to consider the feelings of your partner, but I still prefer to be in a relationship. The good things about being in a relationship are far more important to me than having the freedom to do what I want. I love my fiance very much, and I look forward to spending the future with him.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Like the first responder I think it depends on the person, but not only that I think that it depends on what the person is feeling, if they want a relationship or if they don't, or if they want to further it or not.
Married life is for me.
@Elvali (68)
• China
11 Feb 09
Well,I'm also in your team and I feel good.I'm used to living in this way even I feel a little bit inconvenient sometimes.
I can;t say I love to be alone all the time,but till now,I'd like to be single and I have to.Because I have so many other things to complete and no one can help me,there is no time for me to think about this kind of things.
Since we are the member of this team,let's enjoy it and make it a better life.
@nikagesmundo (5)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
for me, it depends on how you deal with your partner. becuase even though you're already married, you can enjoy life just like when you and your partner is in girlfriend/boyfriend stage. just like my relationship with my husband. i can do whatever i wanted and he is also. but we are much happier if we are together enjoying life.
being single, for me, is not quite okey. because how about if your friends have thier boyfriend or girlfriend in thier own? you will be out of place.
@dinglover (52)
• China
11 Feb 09
each phase of your life will give you something unique and make you know youself better towards maturity. just act your age, when you are young, just enjoy your freedom and explore the world. youth is experimental. in committed life, you are trying to find out whether he or she is the person right for you. And in the married life, parenting will help you understand the real meaning of responsibility, making you feel complete. each stage will take something away from you but also will reward you sth. in return. so just enjoy it and be happy.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
11 Feb 09
Married life does not really rock in its true sense, but I think I would still opt for it. As long as one is single, there’s not a care in the world…you can enjoy life as you want. But married life lends a balance, a sense of sanity into our lives. The fact that we have to think over many things before we take any plunge, saves us from a lot of disastrous situations.
@dio123 (1788)
• India
10 Feb 09
It is totally depended on the stage of your life Now you said you are only 19 and in this age you will love to be free doing your own things, dreaming a lot for your future and making your life delightful, but at some stage of your life you feel surely feel need for a partner to whom you can share your thoughts, who will give love to you, who will care for you and vice versa, that is why life is always good if we have planned it well
@dropofrain (1167)
• India
10 Feb 09
I think the committed life is the best. THere you have the freedom also and someone to care also. I think I would prefer to live that life the most. IT is the most amazing one and every one looks forward to the same.
@iamsolucky (1241)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
whatever your into, single, comitted, married, separated, its not that important, I think you need to be happy and enjoy life. For me, i dont like to be single forever, but i do enjoy being single today because tomorrow we will never know that i will enter the complicated yet wonderful life of being a wife, a mother, a partner. If im going to be a wife, i do want to enjoy the moment and make happy memories with my husband. If things went wrong and if relationship didnt work, never regret, just talk with your partner and help each other, Life is so waisted when we regret every bad moves we had.
life is like , if your a single now, enjoy it, if tomorrow you already a married guy or gal, enjoy it too.
Happy mylotting!!!!
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
11 Feb 09
Each and every part of life has its own share of happiness and sorrows.In single's life there is no responsibility and your life is at your liberty.You live for your own self .In a committed relationship you learn to adjust a mew person in your life with open arms and start taking care for her/him.You start taking the responsibility and learn to adapt.Married life is a full term commitment with your partner.You have whole bundle of new duties and responsibilities.You learn to live for others .So you can say that each stage of life is designed by GOD after taking into consideration age,maturity of thoughts and actions.
@eighternity (363)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
I'm 23 years old and have a baby already. If I would ask which I prefer? single or married? I will choose to be single but since I experienced to have a cute baby, I would say that I'm happy right now. I can still hang with my friends if I want too..
@srinureddy52 (42)
• India
11 Feb 09
in my opinion upto age of 26th single life is better .. after that u can go for a partner. .
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
10 Feb 09
I think it depends on the person. I enjoy married life, but I have friends that love being single and I can see that to. I think to be single and really enjoy it you have to be really in touch and happy with yourself. It is also personal preference. I wouldn't jump into anything to quick.
@tudors (1556)
• China
10 Feb 09
Better go through both of them then little regret will be left behind. Do the right thing at the right time. At the age of 19, if I were you, I would choose to remain for single for at least 1 or 2 years. Friends are enough, when you need to be alone, let them go. Or call them to hang out.