love marriages are more stronger than arranged ones do you agree?

It is a matter of real love(divine or pure love) that strengthens the bond in life with no quarrels. Love or arranged marriage doesn't mind for lovers. Lovers are always ready to love and ready to die.

For me a marriage that is sealed with love is better than an arranged marraige. I am a Filipina and just got married to an American guy last year, on May. Before we get married, we've gone through a long process of getting to know each other. We were bf and gf for 6 months and were engaged for a year and a half before we entered into a more serious relationship which is being a hushand and wife. Within those years we've been together we have been tested and yet we stick to each other that is because we love each other. We talked things over that have caused our relationhip in truoble and fixed it. Now, we are married for almost 9 months. Our relationship is getting stronger every passing day. Though there are times oflove quarrels, we are now solving and fixing it right away. Marriage is a sacred thing. The two parties invloved should have Love, Trust and Respect for each other in order for the relationship to work. Without those three important things i have mentioned the maraige is fraud. It should not be played by arranging marriage because in an arranged marriage, how can you vow before God to love the person in front of you if you do not even love him/her in the first place?

I would rather be in a marriage where the decision to enter into it was the one of the two parties involved. I don't think that this would mean that there would never be any disagreements between the couple but, at least, I'd feel as if I were with the person I wanted to be with. Some cultures do the arranged marriage thing and seem to make out okay, but what if it didn't work out to where they learned to love each other? I'd rather know that the love was there first.