My babys dad
By tasha19
@tasha19 (254)
United States
February 10, 2009 2:30pm CST
i had my heart broken my the father of my childern i found out that hes been cheating on me for 2 years we have been together for 4 years. we have a 11 month old baby girl and im pregnant with twins that are due on april 9. I just broke up with him two weeks ago its really hard i feel lonely with out him i just dont know what to do. And the sad thing is that the twins are going to an adoption agency because right now i dont have any money. But after theyre born im going back to school to be a physical therapist. i hope i dont stay heart broken for long. :(
4 responses
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
10 Feb 09
That is a horrible thing to have to deal with. Before you give up your babies and end up really regretting it later, please check into all of the possible help you can get to enable you to keep them. Surely there is a way. I know that having to ask for help can feel horrible, but sometmes, we just have to. Do you have any family that could help you or that maybe you could live with until you can get on your feet again? A friend? Anyone? If not, does your area have subsidized housing? You could possibly get a place rent free through section 8 housing. What about other assistance? Please do not give up without a fight, your babies are all depending on you, and they will all need YOU to be there for them.
I have been in the position of being flat broke, alone, and pregnant with 2 kids. It was not easy, but I applied for every type of assistance I could and got through it. Not every place could or would help me, but enough of them did that I was able to keep my kids healthy and most importantly, they were with me.
Please, look into getting assistance. I know that here, and mst places across the US, there is a program that pays for baby formula and some other foods, there are many places that should be able to help. Churches, local organizations, etc., etc.
God bless you and your babies.
@tasha19 (254)
• United States
10 Feb 09
well i thought about all that but i dont want the twins to have to struggle with me i want them to be happy and have parents that are worry free well about money. because right now i have a 11 month old to worry about already and adding to more kids will not only be hard on me but it will be hard on her. so im hoping they will be happier with a family that can support them better than i can
@daneg33 (1128)
• Canada
10 Feb 09
Oh you poor sweet girl. My heart aches for you. Good for you for having the courage to get him out of your life, though. You are better off without him if he is a cheat. One day you will find someone who will treat you with much love and respect. Remember the old cliche "everything happens for a reason".
@stephy_marie (28)
• United States
14 Feb 09
Tasha, wow you are in my prayers i know how it is to give someone your all in all and the crush you!!! i just hope that you recover from it!!! have you thought about gettin help instead of givin the babys up.. i wish i could have twins.. but i really hope you pull out of it and see this in a more blessed way its a chance for you to start a new life.. put god before anything!!
