life is CRAZY

With four childer and an additional to take care of... life for you must really be crazy... i can't imagine myself in such a situation... but in a few weeks... my husband will be going back to China... so there will be only me and my daughter in the apartment... and it can be very crazy... with a full time job... a toddler... and all those household chores that i need to do all by myself...

That's how we should deal with life isn't it roni? We all have our respective issues in life, but we need to go on and do whatever we need to do. I know how hard you work as a single parent. Keiji needs you and he's so lucky to have an Auntie Roni. You are a strong woman, and I know you can deal with life's craziness and tough times with flying colours.

Hi friend, Just dropped by to see how you are doing...and now I know. From the sound of it you are spinning in orbit that is going really fast! Stopping, shedding a tear and breathing really deep, really slow and reminding yourself that you are a survivor...and no matter how crazy life gets I believe you will always make it through. Sometimes though when you are constantly giving to others and attending to their needs every now and then it is important to carve out a little "me" time so you can regroup and recharge. Many mothers David and I work with have a hard time with that and often come up with all the reasons they can't take time for themselves. I could list them but I feel you telling me why you can't either. My response dear one is that non one can keep drawing from their own life force to sustain others without draining themselves. Taking even a little breathing space and doing a few self care things could re-charge your batteries and give you a fresh "perspective." If run too long on empty then you will not have anything left...and then what will they all do? So investing in yourself is, in realty an investment in all your loved ones. Do take care and if there is anything David or I can do beyond offering our love, compassion, care and friendship...just let us know and if we can assist we will. Feel me sending you warm, caring hugs and wishes for less stress and more blessings. Your Canadian friends, Raia and David

Life really is a complicated one. We need to sacrifice for our loved ones even if it gives us a hard time doing it. It is natural that we feel tired and become crazy sometimes. This is why we need to relax a bit.. Take a little time for our own relaxation and pleasure. It's not good to be working and working always without spending sometime in relaxation. Our mind needs to be refreshed as well as our emotions.

Your a tough woman.!Yes it's true that life is crazy.but atleast you still can go on and carry everything.It's not easy to take care four teens.And your also taking care of your nephew.