Life is not life without wife

I vote..."I don't". I am perfectly content being single. I have been both married and single. Nothing against marriage at all because I feel the same about living with someone...I prefer not to tangle up my life with anyones. I have learned this from trial and error...to each his own. My life is much happier taking care of my own buisness on my own without help or assistance from anyone else. i don't support anyone other than my own children nor do I expect to get supported. I really live by that Winnie the Pooh quote..."No expectations....no dissapointments." I don't...really don't NEED a husband or boyfriend by my side. I can do for myself and have for years. If I have a boyfriend...he best be at least as strong as me and if he is stronger ...he best accept me as I am or I won't be his girlfiend. I say that because my boyfriend is a multimillionaire. It took him a lot of time..years of up and down...all around to realize...I DO NOT care about his silly money. As much as he worries about women wanting him for his wealth...I worry about guys like him taking advantage of my lack of it. procreation?....the world is overpopulated as it is. if you are going to be with someone, married or otherwise..let it be someone you enjoy time with. Life is too long to be spent being miserable and it is the only life that you know for sure you'll have.

I like that.I would be lost without my wife.we have been together so long we have became one. no i can't say that we have became three her,me and us. if we lost any one of the three we would be less then half.I know the math does not work out but that is the way i fill.my wife is my life.thank you for reminding me.

I guess it is true in my case. But I do believe it is a universal truth, because there are certain people that are just not destined to be like that and is not comfortable being in a married state of life. There are people that are just happy and contented being alone in their life and we just have to repect the choices they made in life.

I believe that we are created to need companionship and it's wonderful when you have a husband or wife that loves you. But I also believe we can be happy without a mate if we are secure enough and keep an interest in life, have friends and family around us. Being in a happy marriage is the ideal life but one can be happy without it.

Good question Krajibg. Apostle Paul talked about this topic before. You can read it in the Bible in 1 Corinthians chapter 7. The whole chapter speaks about Marriage. On verse 1 it says "Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. On verse 2 it says " But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. People during that time are committing sins. So that's why Apostle Paul says that if you can't control yourself looking at a woman or lust her ( it is already a sin because you committed adultery to your heart already says Jesus) you better get married.

I agree with your topic, because to get more true life we must discuss our problem with our wife/husband. If we don't have husband/wife we will get more difficult to solve our problems. It is my opinion about the necessary for a wife or husband.

I don't believe that to be necessarily true. One does not have to be married or have a partner to have a happy, fulfilled life. Everyone is different and the trick is to take the time to get to know ourselves and figure out what would make us truly happy; unfortunately too many of us are led by what is expected of us and not what we really want. Marriage is not for everyone and the divorce rate is probably a good indication of that, although I realize when I say this that reasons for divorce are various and personal and just because a person is divorced does not mean he or she should not be married. I think we should live our lives according to what makes our hearts sing, married or not.

I think that true happiness can be achieved even in solitary. True happiness is a choice to have a certain outlook on life. I think however it is harder for people to find that happiness on their own. It is always better to have multiple eyes on a situation, so that someone can point out the beauty. I think the more relationships, friends, and family members we are close to the easier it is to be happy.

I'd been married for a happy 12 years when I lost my husband. It's true life is pleasant with a husband but after 19 years without him been adjusted to be single. So busy earning a living for the kids that forgot about married life. Now at 53 am used of being single but with the children around to complete life.

life sometimes easy sometimes hard just like Tyre. but life can make pleasant depends that persons it self. like i do when i was single my life so happy no one get mad to me when i hangup, not go home but sometimes i feel lonely but after i have a wife my life so colorful, i'm feel lonely no more and thanks to God i have good wife and take care of me.

it really depends on our own choices. if we are not contented with single life then we should marry but if we are really happy being single then its our choice and nobody has the right to condemn us.

some of us dont need a husband /wife , some dont deserve one .some shouldnt have one . life is what you make of it , but the companionship part is the best . if man and woman could do just the companion part alone , and then go home to thier own lives , thered be no divorces , probably a much less populated world and probably a whole lot more happy people . there are many people who choose a life without a spouce .as for the religius side of it , more people live together today than ever , its not like the old days thats for sure

This is a great discussion topic! I don't think that all of us need to be married at all. I believe that we all have roles in this life based upon our past life karma so that we must choose the path that helps to move beyond that karma. Some of that may mean going without a wife or husband because of something that occured in that life. I also believe that in these paths that not all are meant to marry or procreate, and that those lives are not any less needed. I think of his Holiness The Dali Lama. He isn't married, he doesn't procreate, and yet his role is needed. Namaste- Anora

I am a graduate student at the age of 26 years old.It's about five years after I fell in love with my girlfriend,we love each other deeply for these years.She works in our hometown,and I am now in a university in other place of the country.We plan to marry each other after my graduating this year.Both of us are eager to live with each other.I don't know how can my future life will be.But I am sure a life with wife or husband is important.

Why, right in the first chapter of the Bible, God tells you that men and women were made for each other. He wants you to know that there is nothing so beautiful as meeting the one mate meant for you. And God wants love making to be happy. He does not want you to be old when you are young. We should not forsake the love that God created for every human. I believe that marriage should be ultimate aim of every human as not only for meeting our biological needs but for companion in life through the graying of hair and flying forth of the children. The best is yet to be. All down through the lengthening shadows of life, marriage and love sends its golden rays of beauty and romance, transformed into loving service and faith and trust.

you are right because life without wife cannot be fulfilled because after Soe days of our life we will feel that definitely we should have wife.

Well, yes I do agree that life isn't complete without a life time relationship with faithfull wife/husband and being faithfull himself/herself. I mean, what for I go to work each and every day if not for my own family. Why do I have to struggle in 'savage world' if not for them (my wife and daughter)? Well, it may be too much, but that what I really feel about my wife. She is my reason to be alive. Funny though, I was never think any of it before I married... I was thinking that wedding is a waste of time and money (ceremony is not cheap). I was so stupid back there... But I do gain a my reason again after I married. So I'm not that stupid after all.

The answer is quite in explicable.....on thing for sure lot of responsibilities would be added on to your shoulders but sometimes you must curb your natural way of living.....tat is difficult all of a sudden......but thats where the challenge to prove that your are not here for mere survival.....accomplish your goals.....my feeling is life is boring without your partners.....

This is grat topic.I don't have a wife but i got girl friends.We are getting well but i don'T think to marry soon.But for you i think its good thing to have a marriage.I'm happy for you.Happy my lotting and good luck:DSee you soon dude.