What will you do if your partner is in a hot temper?

@rirbry (353)
Malaysia
February 10, 2009 9:52pm CST
My husband is really stress with his work lately and when he came home he will kept silent without saying anything and i don't really know how i wanna start a conversation because I'm afraid i might make him angrier
6 responses
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Hello, when he is in a bad mood I let him stay by himself until he cools off. He gets that way watching sports so when our team is doing bad I watch it in a different room because I would rather him get angry by himself.
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 09
That what my father in law say but i just cant let him being upset alone thats why i just sit still by his side
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
11 Feb 09
If I came home and my partner was hot tempred I would be very surprised because my girlfriend is very mild mannered and like me is not angered easily. She's a great girl and I know that she doesn't get angry and she is usually very laid back and calm. I love her dearly and no matter what happens I will always try to do what's best for her because that's how much I love her.
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 09
Wow you do love your girlfriend so much, thats what a women usually do.. Just smile even his partner is stress up =0
• United States
11 Feb 09
It can be rough to know your partner is experiencing so much stress. Giving him time to let work at work is probably for the best. Wait until he's had time to unwind and then offer to listen if he wants. Most men do not want to communicate about work or problems the way women do, it's our style of communication. Most men are the type to leave work at work, and home at home. Perhaps knowing that you care enough to listen will allow him peace of mind, and you peace of mind knowing that he's trying to keep things from you so that you don't worry. Namaste- Anora
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 09
Nope my hubby is like bringing his work problem at home that's why he stressed up
• India
11 Feb 09
It's a very common situation.It happened with so many wives.Don't worry at all. You first cook something which your habbi likes most.Wear a Smile on your face.Be in a dressing which he likes most.Offer him his fevorite dish...and start spaekingon a subject which he likes most.for instance...If your husband like Cricket/Football,just tell him about the recent score of the match...How his fevorite played in the game...etc... Then he start chatting with you...Then give a comment like..You are so tired of working...is there any problem at work...etc...Be polite as much as possible...While you are speaking,take his hand in your hand,and speak wathing in his eyes.... I think that it will help you... Thanks...
@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
some men would really require a quiet time when they get home from work and all stressed out. some would just turn the television on. unlike us girls who would prefer having someone to talk to just to unload our stress. we should understand that men are different and give them the space they wanted. may be when it is dinner time that you could start a conversation with him or when you are in bed about to sleep. but it would be better if the topic of conversation does not involve anything about work unless your husband open up the topic about work. but base on my experience, my husband do not want to talk anything about work when he is at home.
@sdwfstone (130)
• China
11 Feb 09
give she/he enough time to think about what she/he have said
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 09
Yaa most of time i do that