is virginity still important????

That definitely matters if you are still in youth.virginity represents purity?clearly beauty.I care much about that personally.

For me as a woman, It is still important. And I like that my husband is still a virgin, because I could not imagine him doing it with other girls. You both discover the intimacy and what suits you best.

For me, no it's not important anymore. I guess i have matured as a person and blaming some girl because she's not virgin anymore would be useless. There's just no point in dwelling with one's virginity. It's no issue for me. As long as the girl is honest to me and faithful then i guess there's nothing to worry about even if she's not virgin anymore. It's just the society that is making non virgin women unpleasant to men but in real life, it really shouldn't matter.

I'll love to marry a virgin or atleast stick to a virgin if i am lucky to meet one again. Considering the high rate of STD/STIs nowadays and considering the fact that virgins seems to be more trust worthy than the others. But the problem with virgins is that once they taste it they dare formore and on the long run u won't be able to satisfy her. Second problem is they tend to be unruly. It is good and infact important as far as i am concerned. The one i met once, i gave her everything. I started dating her even before she was mature - like 13. But when she was 18 (even tho i never had s*x with her during those times) She got tired of the romance i gave and got too used to me. So she left. But it si good all the same..Most importantly because IT IS THE WILL OF GOD - that there shouldn't be s*x before marriage.

It's a matter of getting a balanced perspective. Have you asked your current girlfriend for her opinion? If there aren't any religious or moral issues to consider, my opinion is that it's important to think in terms of how early and to what extent you want to develop your bedroom skills. There is nothing more satisfying to a man than to be considered great in bed. And like any other skill, it takes time to learn. And I think any man wouldn't want to be considered a novice in bed. It's all about timing and skill development. In many instances, relationships break down because of dissatisfaction in the bedroom. Some people think of intimate relations in terms of moral and religious values. Other people think in terms of the skills required to further enhance and deepen relationships, or to boost their personal pleasure and enjoyment of life. We are all different in our desires and motivation. Hopefully, you'll be able to determine the path that is right for YOU.

I'm a girl and i'm a virgin by now. I treat my virginity very important. I just want to have the happiest moment with the guy who will be my husband. In my country, there still many guys who prefer virgins to be their wife.

From my point of view,virginity must be important for a girl...i have engaged with my boyfriend from 3 years,but still we are away from bed.it is not because we are not sure about our relationship,it is because we both want to maintain the value of Indian culture,where virginity is most important before marriage,for both boys and girls.Now,it depends on both boys and girls and their thinking...but be honest from your side...you will get your right choice...

Sorry, I'm not a girl, but let's get this discussion heated up (no pun intended). Go for it! Keep your virginity! It is worth it. To look back and not have the baggage of previous relationships (or bedships as you discussed) and pain and issues is so nice. I admire you and hang in there and find the right girl to marry and it will be worth it.

Just wait for the right time. If neither of you are ready, then you are not ready. Don't feel like you have to get rid of your virginity like it's a bad thing.

just take ur time u will know when the time is right to lose it. if i was u i would wait till i was married before i lost it