giving in to your bf...
By sammy14
@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
February 11, 2009 3:29am CST
its only two days before the most celebrated february 14 valentines day will be celebrated... everybody know that most if not all will celebrate this momentous day with their loved ones within the confines of a room where they will express their love with intimacy.. As a guy im just wondering whether is it right for a girl to give in to the lust of his boyfriend in the guise of love... i mean is it right to lose ones purity because of a boyfriends pressure.. or to peers pressure who have done it with their boyfriends.. for recognition by peers or you have to lose your purity because you have reached the age wherein you have done it with a bf!! or maybe for experience only... What do you think...
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3 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
11 Feb 09
I don't think that giving in to anyone, no matter what special occasion it is, is right. If you are not ready yourself, no amount of peer or relationship pressure should make you feel that you have to lose that part of you that is so special. Innocence, once lost is never to be taken back.
I'll be the first to admit that I almost did it with someone that I was not in love with, but I stopped and I am so glad that I did. I knew deep within me he wasn't the one, I waited and I found the one.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
23 Feb 09
it was a long time ago when I lost my purity, but I still remeber it like it was yesterday (sadly).
It happen so fast (him coming on to me) that I didn't know what to think. I didn't say no because I was sort of curious too what every one thought was so great about it. 3 hours later when it was all done with all I could think was, This is it?! what is so great about it!?
Years later I come to find out, that he just sucked and that it really wasn't like that at all! 
@jaymeeliz (505)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
If ever it is done it shouldn't be because of pressure or giving in. Both people should be ready of the consequences. I don't think it is enough reason to do it because everyone else you know has done it. There should be genuine concern, and love from both parties.
