Is anybody really there?

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This is the question I keep asking myself, I feel in such a funny mood today I cannot explain it but let me tell you why I feel like this:- Last night as mentioned in another discussion hubby and I went on a ghosthunting vigil last night, now nothing associated with the pub we were in happened but the lady that hosted it was a clairvoyant and so every so often she would give messages out to people. Now at the beginning she said she had someone with her that had died with throat cancer that it was a man and he had been in the forces and that he had died a brutal death. I felt the hair on the back of my neck go because my Grandfather had died in that way,with throat cancer and was in the forces but then she said that she felt he was from the area we were in and my grandfather was not, so I never said anything but something just keeps telling me that it was him. During the night she walked past me, she stopped and looked at me and told me that I had a lady with me, a small lady and that it was my Grandmother, and she told me that I had to let go that was all she said. Now at that I just burst into tears because in fact my Grandmother died over 20 years ago and I have never got over it, never and it proper upset me because I feel that I have waited SO long to hear from her and when I did I could not handle it. At the end of the night as she was leaving she turned to me and said "if you need me, you know where I am" I now have her phone number. This whole thing has affected me deeply, part of me wants to phone her and see her but the other part says no. Plus we are going to another night with her in two weeks anyway for which we have paid for so I guess I may as well leave it and see what happens then. But she spoke to my mum in law and what she told her was awesome and she even spilled some secrets that only me hubby and mum in law knew!!! I am proper confused now and today feel so down I dont know why. Have any of you ever visited a clairvoyant or medium or whatever, did they tell you things they could not possibly know or did they use guesswork? What is your take on all this, believe or not?