Is This Real...Can A Person Really Feel This Way??

That's the thing though...when i look at my husband, i'm not sure whether i have a good life. Recently he has stopped trusting me. He's been searching through my cell phone to see who's calling me, texting me and who i'm talking to and texting in return. I have a daughter that is in HS in cheerleading and i've been going to alot of the games to see her cheer but my husband thinks i am meeting someone at the game because i wear nice outfits when i go. I wear nice outfits so i won't embarrass my daughter if i wear bummy clothes...LOL. When we are driving and another guy looks in the car...he gets upset. It's almost like he wants me to lock myself in the house and not go anywhere and not have any friends. He hasn't figured out if i was trying to sneak around then i won't tell him where i'm going, i won't leave my cell phone sitting around and i won't be telling him what old boyfriends and friends that i find online. I tell him everything but he just does not trust me. Where's the relationship/marriage if there's no trust?

Sorry to hear that. I would say that if you are doing nothing wrong then let him worry for nothing. There was a time that my husband checked up on me. After a time he finally relized that I was doing nothing wrong and I just said told you so. If your husband was hurt in the past then that could be the reason for him acting this way. In alot of cases it just takes time for them to see that you are a keeper and that they need to stop being foolish. Good luck to you.