Is there a reason why people hurt us?
@wyethlovesyou (349)
Philippines
February 11, 2009 8:53pm CST
Is there a reason why people hurt us and they always makes us cry?
For me, there will always be a reason. It is a part of the so called "LEARNING PROCESS" that will make us a better person for the sake of ourselves.
So does this mean that we should stop looking back for a love that may make its way back? For it shouldn't be coming from behind rather it would always be there in front of you.
You know there are bitters who cannot move on from getting hurt.
5 responses
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
12 Feb 09
I been hurt alot over the years. The biggest reason has to do being naive. I would end being taken advantage of! That doesn't happen much anymore because I'm wiser and pay more attention to people and situations! I've been hurt by so called friends and family. Family I have pretty much forgiven but whenI friend does it to me they aren't my friends anymore!
@wyethlovesyou (349)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Hi there blue65packer. I feel sad for you for getting hurt alot. =(
Yes, its hard to forgive but its also hard to forget (for me). Some people just use us for their own purposes that we thought they wouldn't take us for granted right? :(
REALLY PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT FROM ONE ANOTHER. :))
Thank you for sharing your side blue65packer! :)
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
i guess you are right that hurt is always part of "learning process" and actually those who hurt us are the ones who are also important in our lives. I keep on saying that in pain is part and parcel of loving a person. its ironic but when we feel hurt thats the time we realize that the person who hurt us is also the person close to our hurt =)
@wyethlovesyou (349)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Good day there cathya. Thank you for agreeing with the "learning process". Yes that is the saddest thing of getting hurt specially the one who hurt us is the one of the people who we really treasure the most. :( thank you for responding to this discussion sis. :)
@hopejordan (3561)
• Australia
12 Feb 09
hi there wyethlovesyou
yes i know how you feel cause it happens to me alot 1 month ago i went to a friends house and she did not even say hello but to other people she did that made me cry i did not want to talk to her and now its ok we both said sorry i told her that was not nice but if it happens again i will try to ignore it.
take care happy postings.
@wyethlovesyou (349)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Hi there hopejordan, If i were on your shoes I will feel the same way. and I will ask myself why did she ignore me right? is there something wrong between us? Something like that, But you know good for you because you and your friend are okay now. =)
Sometimes, we should ignore the little things that could break us apart. =)
Happy Day!
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
i guess you are right that being hurt is part of the "learning process" and the ones who always hurt us are the ones important to us. I keep on saying that pain is part and parcel of loving a person. its ironic but most of time when we get hurt thats the moment we realize that the person who have hurt us is also the person who is close to our heart =)
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
12 Feb 09
I don't think people who truly are friends, loved ones, etc should intentionally hurt another. I do not feel that is part of the learning process at all, though I will agree you do learn from it. I agree that we should not allow hurts to make us bitter. If someone has hurt us it is best to move onward, to find new love or friendships. That is what life is about, this journey. Sometimes that journey has pebbles in our shoes, other times it is like walking on a cloud. Good discussion.
@wyethlovesyou (349)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Thank you sharing your side ms Anora_Eldorath. =) Yes we should move on from it but its hard to move on right? Yes and it is really a part of our journey in life. God bless you and keep advising to many people! :)
