He's Going To Ask For Me?!?!
By singlemommy
@singlemommy (2955)
United States
February 11, 2009 9:27pm CST
Most of you here on MyLot know about the FedEx driver that I have a MASSIVE crush on. 
Well, yesterday he came in and talked to me for a good 5 or 10 minutes and then gave me a big hug before he left. Today, he came in again and he just said, "Hi" and "Bye". He talked with a couple guys I work with but he didn't really talk to me. After he left a guy I work with asked me, "Have you hit that yet?". I told him no because I wasn't sure if he was interested or not. I told him that sometimes he seems interested and other times he doesn't seem interested. He said, "Well, I seen him give you that big hug yesterday". So, this conversation prompted me to talk to the FedEx guy's friend (my co-worker). I asked him if he ever found out if the FedEx guy was interested in me or not and he said, "All he told me was that he liked you". I told him, "Well, you need to find out what kind of 'like' we are talking about. Is it an 'I would date her like' or an 'I like her, but I don't want to date her kind of like'". He said, "How about I just ask him straight out if he wants to go out with you". I said, "That sounds good".
It could be the moment of truth for me. I'm not sure if it will be good or bad, but I guess the only way I can look at it is that I will FINALLY know. I'm trying not to get optimistic about it because I don't want to be disappointed if he doesn't want to go out with me. I guess there is only one way to find out though and atleast I am getting someone else to ask for me. I guess I just don't have the confidence to come right out and ask myself. So, now I'm just a little nervous about it all, even though I know that either way it turns out I will be okay with the result.
Have you ever been wondering if someone liked you and knew that you were going to find out for sure whether they liked you or not? Man, this sounds so "High School".
Well, yesterday he came in and talked to me for a good 5 or 10 minutes and then gave me a big hug before he left. Today, he came in again and he just said, "Hi" and "Bye". He talked with a couple guys I work with but he didn't really talk to me. After he left a guy I work with asked me, "Have you hit that yet?". I told him no because I wasn't sure if he was interested or not. I told him that sometimes he seems interested and other times he doesn't seem interested. He said, "Well, I seen him give you that big hug yesterday". So, this conversation prompted me to talk to the FedEx guy's friend (my co-worker). I asked him if he ever found out if the FedEx guy was interested in me or not and he said, "All he told me was that he liked you". I told him, "Well, you need to find out what kind of 'like' we are talking about. Is it an 'I would date her like' or an 'I like her, but I don't want to date her kind of like'". He said, "How about I just ask him straight out if he wants to go out with you". I said, "That sounds good".
It could be the moment of truth for me. I'm not sure if it will be good or bad, but I guess the only way I can look at it is that I will FINALLY know. I'm trying not to get optimistic about it because I don't want to be disappointed if he doesn't want to go out with me. I guess there is only one way to find out though and atleast I am getting someone else to ask for me. I guess I just don't have the confidence to come right out and ask myself. So, now I'm just a little nervous about it all, even though I know that either way it turns out I will be okay with the result.
Have you ever been wondering if someone liked you and knew that you were going to find out for sure whether they liked you or not? Man, this sounds so "High School". 6 people like this
17 responses
@bfarrier1 (2082)
• United States
12 Feb 09
High School was fun was'nt it?Well you quest for the fedex driver is getting closer and closer but as you said you will be okay either way.Who knows he could be that prince charming I have been telling you about,but if not that means he is still out there.I wish you the best,Good Luck and have a wonderful day tomorrow.
?Well you quest for the fedex driver is getting closer and closer but as you said you will be okay either way.Who knows he could be that prince charming I have been telling you about,but if not that means he is still out there.I wish you the best,Good Luck and have a wonderful day tomorrow.3 people like this
@bfarrier1 (2082)
• United States
15 Feb 09
Well what happened?Did he ask you out yet?What happened to your picture it was a good one.I hope your having a great day.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Sorry, I haven't been on MyLot in a few days. I've been busy. Well, one good thing happened yesterday. Mr. FedEx came in, I wasn't around but I got a page by someone and I had to go to my area. He saw me and quit talking to the man that he was talking to and walked over to me and talked for a few minutes. He finally said, "Well, I should probably go and try to get some lunch". He then gave me a big hug and told me bye. Now, today, he came in and the only thing he really said to me was "Bye".
The friend never did tell me if he had asked Mr. FedEx or not, so today I asked him if he had. He said that he went to help him work on some vehicles over the weekend and he asked him but he didn't answer. He said that they were having issues with the vehicles and my FedEx guy was getting very frustrated so he figured that was why he didn't answer him.
I don't know, I'm starting to think that maybe I am getting closer to that date. It's just kind of a feeling I have, so I'm waiting....I hope he asks soon.
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Thank you so much. Yes, I'm hoping that he is the Prince Charming that you have been talking to me about and even if he isn't, I know my Prince Charming is out there somewhere and I will eventually walk into his arms.
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@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
12 Feb 09
First of all, good luck with this guy. You need all the happiness you can get and if this guy can give it to you, great. I just hope this works out for you. i know you must be nervous as hell wondering, will he, wont he? Anyway, lets keep our fingers corssed and hope for the best. You must be on the top of the world with that big hug. What caused it ? Just be normal and take things as they come. Even if his liking is not the way you want it, understand that God knows best and we in our ignorance do not understand His ways. Whatever, keep your cool and a happy heart. Once again good luck and let us know.
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@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
13 Feb 09
Wow, if you can ask for a hug, why not directly ask him for a date or his inclination to you. Well, the fact that he likes hugging you is good, but it also could be just because he is a friendly guy and has no other notion in his mind. Take it easy and one day at a time. Good luck.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Yes, I know that God knows best and believe me, I've been praying about this guy for awhile. I have never got a definite sign from God about either way, so I'm just trying to play it by ear and hoping that God will work it out if it is meant to be. I trust that whatever happens is God's Will. I hope that it happens, but if the FedEx guy isn't the right man for me, then I hope it doesn't happen. I won't be hurt if he doesn't want to date me, but I really hope that he does. Thanks for the encouragement and the advice.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Oh, I forgot to mention about the "hug". Um, in the past couple weeks I have asked for hugs from him, actually last Friday I asked if I could have a hug since I wasn't going to be able to see him all weekend and he was willing 
, but the other day, we were just talking and he was getting ready to leave and he just hugged me real big and said good bye.
, but the other day, we were just talking and he was getting ready to leave and he just hugged me real big and said good bye.1 person likes this
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Yeah pretty cute little love story you have in there. It is indeed so high school kind of thing but I guess there's nothing wrong with that to experience that again in whatever your age is. Well Good luck to you and hopefully everything turns out in your favor.
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@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
12 Feb 09
You are right, I have been following your FedEx romance haha. It seems like you have a pretty good chance with him, especially if he is talking about you in an interested way with your coworkers. I can't wait to hear about the followup of this, hopefully it will be really good news. You will have to tell us when and where you are having this date, and then later post about how it went hehe. I am glad to hear that things are going well though. And don't worry, we all have a bit of "high school" in us! 
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
12 Feb 09
Thanks for your vote of optimism. You are so right, I think we all do have some "High School" in us too. I will definitely keep everyone posted.3 people like this
@dreamweaverjan (3471)
• United States
12 Feb 09
Hey Singlemommy: I'm crossing my fingers for you; It's so cute!!!
You and the Fed ex guy 
LOL!!!
GOOD LUCK!! keep us all posted....Us Myloter's want to know (G)!!!
LOL!!!
GOOD LUCK!! keep us all posted....Us Myloter's want to know (G)!!!
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
12 Feb 09
Thanks so much! I will DEFINITELY keep you posted.
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@theweerouss (982)
• United States
12 Feb 09
this sounds like a promising situation! i've seen some of your posts about this fedex dreamboat and i hope everything works out how you're wishing! from the sound of this post in particular, it seems like the fedex guy is definitely into you, and that you've got some great coworkers ready and willing to help facilitate the two of you getting together.
enjoy those "high school" butterflies! good luck!
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
12 Feb 09
Yes, I guess I can enjoy the "butterflies" until I find out that he doesn't want to date me otherwise. I'm hoping he does though.
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@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
15 Feb 09
It sounds very romantic, off course you have butterflies in your stomache with something like this. I don't think that feeling ever passes, even if you get older. I sure hope he will take you out for a date and that you two will have a wonderfull time. Do keep us updated on the FedEx romance!!
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
18 Feb 09
Perhaps he just isn't too fond of the idea that someone else is asking it. A lot of guys fancy it when a girl makes the first move and asks them out, allthough I have experience in that area that it can be a little awkward and scary to do so if you really, really fancy someone. If you have the guts to do so I am sure that he would appreciate it. Good luck, keep positive and I'll try and keep up here with the news .
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Yes, believe me, I will keep you updated. The current status is that the friend did ask him, but he didn't give an answer. Not sure if that is a good sign or a bad sign.
I do think that I might be getting closer to the date though. I'm just kind of hanging out and hanging on with a little bit of faith that it will happen any day.
The current status is that the friend did ask him, but he didn't give an answer. Not sure if that is a good sign or a bad sign.
I do think that I might be getting closer to the date though. I'm just kind of hanging out and hanging on with a little bit of faith that it will happen any day.1 person likes this
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
12 Feb 09
Even if at the moment there doesn't seem to be a chance maybe the two of you could hang out as friends. Many relationships bud from a friendship. My husband and I were friends for over a year before we ever dated and we have been together forever now. 
We have actually been together for nearly 22 years. I believe relationships that bud from a friendship truly do last longer. You have first taken the time to find out about each other and this makes it easier to get through the first few dates. Good luck.
We have actually been together for nearly 22 years. I believe relationships that bud from a friendship truly do last longer. You have first taken the time to find out about each other and this makes it easier to get through the first few dates. Good luck.1 person likes this
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Yes, I would really love to have a relationship that is based on friendship. I think it will make a long lasting love.
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Yes, he did ask. He said that he didn't answer him. He said that they were working on some vehicles and they were having problems and Mr. FedEx was getting very frustrated and he thinks that is why he didn't answer him.
I do think I'm getting closer to getting that date though. I really think that maybe he is starting to get a "feel" for my personality and I'm hoping that he really likes me. So, I'm just waiting and keeping my fingers crossed.
@Wordplay (239)
• Canada
16 Feb 09
Your story reminded me of the scene from Legally Blonde where the stylist at the salon has a crush on the delivery driver but is afraid of making the first move.
If he gives you a big goofy grin when he tells you, "I have a package" that can be a pretty good sign. But I'd say a hug is a pretty good sign too.
Good luck with your FedEx driver. I hope he likes you in the right way! Something tells me he will...you will have to keep us posted. with this one. Just be careful with the bend and snap.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Oh My Gosh!!!! You are SO RIGHT!!! I totally remember that movie and the stylist having that crush. It was one of the best parts of the whole movie. Anyway, I really do think I'm getting closer to the date. Atleast, I'm hoping and praying and keeping my fingers crossed.
You are SO RIGHT!!! I totally remember that movie and the stylist having that crush. It was one of the best parts of the whole movie. Anyway, I really do think I'm getting closer to the date. Atleast, I'm hoping and praying and keeping my fingers crossed.
@scorpio19 (1363)
•
12 Feb 09
Hi singlemommy,
What a great discussion and how exciting to have this in your life, even though your on tenter hooks at the mo waiting for the yes or no (which i hope it a big YES)it's a nice exciting wait. I remember this feeling well in my younger days but I think it's brill to have it in your life now, I could do with some of this in mine right now...lol
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I can totally relate, I need this in my life right now and I'm hoping that it happens for me, but even if it doesn't, I'm still going to keep looking for Mr. Right.
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Well, I've hint to him many times, you know, "What do you have planned for the weekend?". Little hints like that, but nothing back, so I don't know.
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
12 Feb 09
Well i think it is a favorable situation for you if he has confessed that he likes you.But you have to be sure about his liking,liking as a date or as friends.In which thing are you interested?You will have to make your mind clear about what you want from him and then analyze his behavior carefully .I wish you all the best for your future endeavors.
Waiting for some happy news.
Waiting for some happy news.2 people like this
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I sure hope it is a favorable situation for me. Thanks for the comment!
@Niah1976 (739)
• Paranaque, Philippines
12 Feb 09
O yeah, that sounds interesting. Well, for me I think it's corny but I'll say it anyway. You have to pray and ask God what is the real score. Leave everything to God and He will surely guide you. No one wants to get hurt. So I guess, leave all your worries to God and everything will be just fine. Smile!!!!!!!! Good luck and God bless you!!!!
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Yes, I am praying about it. Hopefully God's Will will make itself apparent soon.
@Corimore (249)
• United States
12 Feb 09
He'd better like you or he'll have a lot of mylotters to deal with. LOL!! We are all rooting for you. Sounds to me like he is going through the same thing and isn't to sure what to do. Good luck. As for me I like the UPS guys they all seem to have nice legs under those shorts. Please nobody tell my husband I said that.;)
@exactoblade (37)
• United States
12 Feb 09
High School is so much more different now .
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@stephy_marie (28)
• United States
13 Feb 09
it sounds like you have a good chance but its like i tell my best friend what is there to loose i think that he would have respected you more if you would have asked but then again some people just arent as forward as i am.. i know tho that you feel a relief for something to be said to him.. cause if it wouldnt have got said to him then you would beat your self up and just keep wandering i wish you the best of luck.. keep us updated
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