Are you worried that if you lost weight you might have an affair?

I really can't leave my husband, because he is abusive to the kids when I am not around. I can't afford for them to be alone with him, because he could get violent. I already tried to leave him, but the court was going to give him unsupervised visits for a few days a week as well as the possibility of summers with him. For their protection, I remain with him to supervise him at all times. I don't want my kids to have to get injured before the court believes me that he can be violent. I spent all my money trying to get supervision for his visits. It was just not possible. So I am stuck. I didn't mean to say I want to have an affair. I am working to avoid the possibility by avoiding men, and discussions with men, dressing modestly, etc. It's just in my mind sometimes and I push it out. But when I lose weight the temptation is greater to find comfort on companionship with another man. I know that is wrong and I will not do it, but it does make it hard, psychologically, to lose weight. It is so much easier to be heavy and unattractive. The moment I lose weight, men start to talk to me more, etc. It is really hard for me to maintain pure thoughts and holy intentions. It exhausts me. On the other hand, the kids hate how heavy I am, and so do I.

there are so many different things in different countries. i think you kan take photoes carefully when your husband menace your kids that's forceful evidence to proof his behavior if you are born in my country, you are lucky when you are born in the city,you can lawsuit for your title but if you born in the village,no one will hear what you have said,divoece is very hard for a woman in China