Problems Living in A Rent House ...

I donot know how to assess this matter. I have bought a house one years ago, to resolve stress of loan, i divided the house into two parts. one of them is rent to a couple of lovers. so far, we are living peacefully and friendly. when i am on business, they will help me look after my little cat. I donot only make them as tenant, but also make them as neighbour. as neighbour, we could often help and chat with each other. so, i think first of all, your friend should inspect himself if he really disturb the others. he should communicate with others, they may change impression to your friend. if it isnot your friend's mistake, i suggest he should change a house.

I am also renting a house,well a dorm and i am sharing my room with 5 students. my only problem with them is the way they always go hoome late at night or may i say they often go home at wee hours in the morning, which I find very inconvenient and sometimes irritationg since I am the one who opens the locked gates for them. but lately they do not spend time roaming around till morning and we all get pretty well together now. i finally have the sisters I longed to have since I am an only girl in the family. In your friends case, I guess it would most advisable to find some other place to rent. if your can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen, that's how the saying goes. I feel its not that healthy for her, emotionaly and physically to live with whom she is living with right now. I do believe there is a place for her where she can rest well and blend with her room mates. i hope your friend will be okey soon.

Living in a shared apartment is indeed tough as you need to cooperate with other boarders.. it's best if she moves out and find another place where she can enjoy her privacy.. and yes, if i were in her shoes, i wouldn't allow other people to tell ridiculous things about me.. i mean, taking a bath isn't a big deal at all so please stop messing up with me!

Hi maxilimian. it is really hard renting a bed space in a house. You have to deal with different persons with different personalities. But if it really needed, why not rent a small house, wherein you are the only one there or gather up some FRIENDS who are also interested in renting a house. At least if you are with your friends, your personalities match already. Tell your friend, to find another place. there also places there who have house rules maybe that can help her. take care

Ya it is very difficult to adjust with strangers because they do not pay heed to your priorities and opportunities.She is suffering because she is living in a rented house with too many people who do not want to understand her needs and are not ready to adjust with her. If she is earning good then she must find a separate apartment for her or find a room which has attached washroom. Wish her luck and hope her problem will come to an end soon.

The best solution is to get another place to live. If she is your real friend why not share your place to her. It seems that you dont have any household living with you. Why not have her live there. This will be good for her and for you, because you'll have a companion.

well dear these are problems one learns to handle by and by. ignore the barking dogs and better treat them with a stick in case of need!! she has to handle . the people always will say something or the other!!

Hey max! Why don't you tell your friend to try talking to these people and ask them what the problem is. Tell them if they have a problem with her to tell her to her face! Sometimes when you confront bullies they stop talking about you! It is really hard when you have a living situation like that. But, instead of your friend doing nothing about it and just crying tell her to try a different approach! I'm telling you I have done this and it shames bullies into keeping their big mouthes shut!

It is very difficult to live in a shared house. i prefer to be independent. It is better to get one room with an attached bathroom. it becomes much easier and you can do as you please. If your friend is not bound to stay there she should shift to some alternate accommodation. She should not tolerate silly people talking silly things.

If one day God appears in front of me and asks - 'dear tell me what would not you like to have on this Earth?". I will promptly answer " Lord give me a boon so that I am not forced to live in a rent house...". This the reality. And if the house happens the same one it is worse than hell. Literally you have no freedom. Just listen and cry your fate and at one tine would feel that you would be better off on the street itself. Now if you are in such condition and this has prolonged try to find our a house which is separate and the owner liver elsewhere. Then you would be less troubled and at the best have a house of your own if means support you.