should I insist to know him well enough before agreening to be his girlfriend
By Jennyaijua
@Jennyaijua (85)
China
February 12, 2009 9:32am CST
I have few love experiences.A is the person I loved,but we missed each other.I didn't think I had known him well enough when he said he loves me,so I refused him.However when I got to know him more and more and fell in love with him ,he had chosen another girl.B is the person who had ever been my boyfriend for two monthes.In fect I had no feeling to him,but he was good to me just like A.I had learned the lesson from A ,and I was afraid to miss another love ,so I accepted him as my boyfriend before I knew him well enough and fell in love with him.But we broke up at last,for I never had feeling to him from the very begining.Now another boy is courting me,how should i deal with the relationship with him.should I insist to know him well enough before agreening to be his girlfriend?
1 response
@kassdaw (591)
• United States
12 Feb 09
I would have to say, agree to be his girlfriend when you want to be his girlfriend. My boyfriend and I met through craigslist 4 months ago and have been together since, we moved in together after the first month. So it really depends on when you are comfortable with the title of "girlfriend." With my ex, I knew him for 5 years before we started dating, a year later we got married and Valentine's Day is are second anniversary. You can't use one bad relationship to compare it to another.
