How often do you send new friend request here on mylot?
By Daffodil20
@Daffodil20 (1754)
India
February 12, 2009 10:08am CST
Sometimes I feel I should send more requests for new friends. But due to lack of time I have not done it since long. Today I'll send request for more friends here because new friends would mean new view points, new and perhaps more interesting discussions and responses.
Do you feel the need too? How often do you send requests?
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8 responses
@manoj1502 (854)
• India
12 Feb 09
I dont send any friend request to anyone as i don't know anyone. I give to the persons whom i know otherwise i wont give request but now i have started to give friend request to everyone as i need lot of friends and also to reply my discussions and i can know many things from them so only now i accept everybody.
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@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
12 Feb 09
Do we have to know people before sending request? How do we do that? At the most I go through their profile and read a few discussions started by them. You accept everybody as yourfriend now. So here's one request from me too.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
13 Feb 09
To be honest, I very rarely send out friend requests. The only time I generally do it is if I have noticed someone that I've been interacting with a lot is not on my list yet. 95% of the friends I have are there because they requested me and not the other way around. I know that sounds bad on my part, but it is what it is and there's certainly no intended malice from me in regards to it. I just don't seem to be in the habit of making requests and never have.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
13 Feb 09
I have no idea exactly why to be honest! lol. Maybe it's because I cross paths with a number of people regularly anyways and even do so with people that have never been on my friends list at all. And in parallel, other people's own habits of making requests compensate for my own laziness in this area!
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@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
13 Feb 09
lol.
But I don't find you lazy in your kind gesture of commenting honestly on my photos. Much appreciated and thanks.
Hope you have a lovely day tommorrow with your lovely wife.
Hope you have a lovely day tommorrow with your lovely wife.1 person likes this
@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
13 Feb 09
You come across as a warm and cheerful person anyone would feel welcome to befriend. No wonder you never have any dearth of such requests. Plus your active participation keeps you in the limelight here.
It doesn't sound bad James! The question of malice doesn't arise in your context. Your prompt reply to each and every responder is a gesture which speaks volumes of your friendly nature. The effort is very appreciated too.
But I'm kind of curious now. Why don't you seem to be in the habit of making requests and never have? My dear friend! 
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@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
12 Feb 09
And you receive one more from me. Hope you gladly add me too. Thanks.
@Marcola (2774)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I haven't since around the time I first started out here which was a year ago. I get more friend requests than I send out. It's kind of different when you don't remember replying to their discussions or vice-versa and you get a friend request.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Hi daffodil! I send friend requests once in awhile when I see
someone in a discussion who comments on something that I have
said that interests me sometimes. Most of the time I get
friend requests from people that I have no idea how they could
even possibly know me. I think that they must see me in a
discussion of someone elses and then they ask me to be their
friend too. That's how lately I have been getting so many
new friend requests of people I have never seen before.
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@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
13 Feb 09
How can anyone miss such a bright ray of sunshine. Be prepared for neverending friend requests for the person you are my SWEET Opal!! HUGS
Be prepared for neverending friend requests for the person you are my SWEET Opal!! HUGS
@23uday (2997)
• India
13 Feb 09
Hi frnd,
In mylot I don't like and i will never send a new friends request.I will adding
directly in to my friends list.I want to get more and more in mylot friends.
I will start a good discussions and responses in mylot.
Be happy and have a nice day.
@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
13 Feb 09
If you want more and more mylot friends then why don't you send requests too 23uday. It will increase your number of friends fast. Thanks and you be happy too.
@jhoannejoj (963)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
HI daffodil20. I send friend request a lot just recently. I started to get bored with some of the discussions that I shifted to finding discussions at my interests section. I add people I responded to and who respond to my discussions. I agree with you, more friends means more interactions, more ideas and more earnings then. Happy mylotting!
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@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
13 Feb 09
It seems most new comers send requests and us old members hardly do it. So I thought it otherwise and sent some requests yesterday and they have accepted and added me. So nice of them. Isn't it? Thanks nchap for responding here.
