Do you cry?
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
India
February 12, 2009 11:51pm CST
Most of the time, male try to stop crying and that affect his health. whenever i feel too much sad and cannot do anything that i cry in closed room. Crying make free from any worries, and my heart become light. I never in cry in front of people but alone. What about you?
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@kangjinru0607 (3)
• China
13 Feb 09
In traditional concept, the men's crying means weakness. In my mind, crying is not only the right of the female. Crying can make you feel better and it is very good for health. Everyone has the rights to be tired or weak for some time. If you feel sad or bad, you want to cry out, then just do it.
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@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
13 Feb 09
yes Cry for yourself not for traditional concept,if you wana feel free &relax . Thanks for ur response.
@karubod (603)
• India
13 Feb 09
hi...its very bad to stop tears , it dossent matters if you are a male or female crying does al ot of good to health than just stopping it,it relieves stess on the nerves ,and after crying we feel so peacefull ....yes if you feel embrassed to cry before people then it,s no problem ,.....most pople cry indoors while no one is watching....
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@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
13 Feb 09
stop tears means increase stress, thanks for your valuable response.
@dodo19 (47342)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 Feb 09
Yes, I do cry. It certainly helps when I'm feeling really sad. It's definitely good for one's help, whether we're talking for a man or a woman. If I need to cry, I try to keep it inside until I can be alone, as I don't really like to cry in public. I'm not ashamed of crying. it's just that, when I'm crying, it's a very private moment, and I don't always want to share things with certain people.
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
14 Feb 09
Yes you are right, i also dont like to share my sorro with anybody else so i cry alone. Thanks for ur response.
@joycemiranda (131)
• Philippines
13 Feb 09
i don't think men should hide when they cry, it's too that when you cry out what is in your heart it relieves you.so don't be ashamed to cry to cry
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
14 Feb 09
yes, you are right and today i cried, now i feel relax. Thanks for response.
@pickwick (858)
• India
13 Feb 09
Hi! Its found that tears contain concentrate element manganese which is involved with moods.It is 30% more than that in the blood serum.So tears remove this chemical and make us feel lighter.Also it contains more ACTH (stress related hormone).So when we are depressed its better to cry than bottling up your feelings.
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
14 Feb 09
Your response is different and scietific, as a science person i liked it. Thanks for your valuable response.
@pickwick (858)
• India
3 Oct 09
Hi!Thank you for the best response.But I would like to add something which I believe in in nonscientific words "There is a sacredness in tears.They are not a mark of weakness,but of power.They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues.They are messengers of overwhelming grief and unspeakable love."
@BrianDaniel (256)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Yes, I cry. It is healthy. I do prefer to cry alone, but am not afraid to cry with others or even in public, if I am so moved.
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
13 Feb 09
yes cry for health lol, nice you are so open person not afraid to cry in public. Happy CryLotting!
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